Hey, I've been on some dating aps lately. It's pretty unattractive to me when a guy matches but doesn't send a message. Usually I take that as an indication that he's passive and not super interested. I typically assume guys will make moves if they're interested. What are y'alls thoughts on the etiquette/social norms for this type of situation?

(disclaimer: I'm not nervous or insecure here. I'm more of someone who has to work to hold back my abrasive and take-charge personality in situations with guys).