What was the hardest aspect of TRP for you to swallow?

umizumiz · 2019-07-24T12:59:35+00:00

As crazy as this sounds, the fact that women don't "accidentally" cheat. They aren't stupid. It didn't "just happen". You didn't "ignore her".

She was literally trying to leave your ass and the other dude didn't want a cheating slut.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-07-24T13:06:24+00:00

There are a few:

That a womans love is opportunistic and the relationship the world told me I could have, was a lie used to get me into the provider roll.

All woman lie about their past.

The only woman that truly loves me is my mother. Once she's gone, that's it.

And the worst and still the best and most valuable.

Nobody gives a fuck about a mans feelings so shut the fuck up about them.

unamedasha · 2019-07-24T13:35:41+00:00

The lightswitch effect

Nightwingx7 · 2019-07-24T13:35:39+00:00

Awalt

Sendmoneytofly · 2019-07-24T13:38:01+00:00

Nobody gives a fuck about you. Fight back and climb or die down and get chopped up

[deleted] · 2019-07-24T14:33:32+00:00

even tho i consider myself generally red pilled by this point, the difference between what some women say and what they do still blows my mind and has caused much hardship. how can you be in tears giving me a speech about how much you love me when you go and do x??? i am naturally inclined to trust people's words, but actions indeed are the only thing that matters.

Yavuzest · 2019-07-24T13:47:39+00:00

awalt hh dgaf tho but its kinda sad wondering about where this cycle will go

Trposh · 2019-07-24T15:09:27+00:00

You said (emphasis mine):

For me it had to have been that women will never love you, and that even if you think you’ve built a “connection” with her, it will always fizzle out. So there is just no point.

I disagree with you on there being no point in building connections. Sure, now that you’re TRP aware, you see the world for what it is, but don’t throw the baby out with the bath water. Seeking and establishing these connections with women can still be very rewarding—it’s one of the things I live for.

The thing that’s different after becoming TRP aware is no longer feeling confused or surprised when the rug is swept out from under our feet. Remembering that everything is temporary helps me live in the moment and appreciate it for what it is. Sure, the glass is already broken, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take a few swigs while you can. Expect it, accept it, and enjoy it.

RStonePT · 2019-07-24T15:39:31+00:00

Just how shitty modern man is, and how he will fight tooth and nail to stay that way

rawrlolrofl · 2019-07-24T16:08:40+00:00

I think of women's love as attraction (which it really is). Then I don't get so butthurt over it that she doesn't really love me. But getting/keeping a girl really attracted is great, they basically act like they love you. Haha

futianze · 2019-07-24T15:26:30+00:00

Your thinking that women will never love you and that any connection will always fizzle out is depressing af man. It's just not true. Reread your post from a different perspective and ask if the person that posted it would, in their current state, be capable of being in a loving relationship. I've experienced real love (what I think to be love, it's not the fairy tale bs, but close, a genuine, affectionate, passionate love for each other in a solid state of polarity between masculine and feminine). It can, and will be done.

It fizzled out, yes, but that was MY doing, as I wanted to focus on my businesses and felt that our relationship was holding my career back. It was, and now I'm in a much more financially secure place and it's taken me around America and to other countries. I didn't beat around the bush, I was straight up and direct with her in telling her that I loved her but my career and creating my future livelihood was more important. She was devastated, but understood because I was honest and she knew it was true. The girl from the relationship and I still talk, meetup, and fuck because we had a genuine connection. I have ZERO doubt I could get back with her or find genuine love somewhere else.

That's my biggest takeaway from TRP - abundance mentality relieves nearly all of the malaise and negativity in my life. Abundance with girls. Abundance with food. Abundance with my social circles. Abundance with traveling. Abundance in skills and job prospects. Abundance of happy thoughts. Live in abundance. This then informed my next biggest takeaway - there isn't a ONE, there are MANY ONES. It's such a better mindset than the "She's not yours, it's just your turn" pussy ass shit. Yeah, love might only last for a year or 5 years, but to me, that's a much more fun life than not even fucking stepping into the arena.

Setting up your relationships with the frame that you'll be kicked in the nuts later on means you'll be more likely to get kicked in the nuts later on! It's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Be careful with your thinking. You'll project your thinking out into your life more than you know, especially when you're still trying to stuff the pill down.

I sense a lot of anger towards women in your post. Just accept (feminine) women as they are as a whole, accept and grow your masculinity, and play the games. Then it gets fun :)

Title	What was the hardest aspect of TRP for you to swallow?
Author	hornyrussiangoat
Upvotes	6
Comments	17
Date	July 24, 2019 12:55 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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