I used to be the over-emotional beta cuck who usually reacted to things like a bitch on her period. Full of emotional response, especially when it came to women. This resulted in hurt, anger and disappointment. Naturally, a coping mechanism turned on: complete detachment from feelings to protect myself. This was before I discovered TRP. As I discovered TRP and things started making more sense, my not-giving-a-fuck coping mechanism amplified. I went from caring too much to becoming a robot. Now, I can barely make myself care even if I want to. Always detached. Always like a stranger looking inside into my own life. A double edged sword; the one thing that helped me with women is the same thing that destroyed me on the inside.

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What I want to share with you, is to really beware of the bottomless pit of not giving a fuck to the extreme. Be careful of becoming a robot with complete detachment from feelings. It is not a desirable outcome, even if it is advertised as a great thing.

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Now I know that this is my personal reaction and coping mechanism when it comes to life and women, but as someone who wished to be this way, I no longer want it. As someone who reads TRP frequently, you will see posts all the time about learning "how to not give a fuck", but you need to tread carefully when you walk down that path. You need to make sure you do not kill yourself on the inside in the process. I know many people will comment saying that this is not the result of "not giving a fuck" or some other explanation. However, I do believe that if you truly stop giving a fuck, you will become like a robot. People on this sub often say you should not give a fuck or that they do not give a fuck about certain things, but the truth is, if they truly did not, it would not be as desirable as they made it out to be.

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Do not become like me. Do not completely detach yourself from feelings for protection. It will eat you alive. Instead, you should care, just not enough for you to lose your logic and knowledge when shit hits the fan.