Whether you’d like to admit it or not, the sexual marketplace exists. If you want to increase the possibility of getting a girl with top shelf SMV then you better raise your own. It’s that simple.

The struggle for women.

The older woman: Imagine downgrading in any way. Car, house, console, etc. In general, men handle this better than women. It sucks but as a man you don’t really have a choice if times are getting tough. You do what needs to be done. Top tier women hit the wall hard because they’re used to luxury and the pussy pass for being attractive. They don’t want to downgrade and will find illogical ways to justify spending money. My mother dropped this one on me, “I grew up on a farm and we didn’t have nice things so I appreciate having them”.

The young woman: Just the other day I was in the gym at an irregular hour and I spotted this girl in typical fit girl attire that I recognised while catching the bus in high school. She was working out more seriously than 90% of girls in the gym and between sets was exchanging some bater with a high SMV male. Now, this girl, when I was aware of her before, was quite unattractive. She was a little overweight and had no idea how to dress or apply her makeup. She’s brought herself up from roughly a 5 to an 8 just by correcting these three things; fitness, makeup and style. Essentially, all that’s holding her back looks-wise is genetics but hey, I’d tap the shit outta that ass. Even with average genetics a girl can greatly improve her SMV. Most women want it easier than that.

The struggle for men.

As a young man growing up in the current society you’re probably inclined to be a good man in your mother’s eyes, while your father (if he’s still that present in your life) is docile from your mother's nagging and who’d rather not go against her word. He’ll avoid dealing with conflict because it’s easier. He will allow his wife to dictate how to do things as she pleases. Unfortunately, your mother’s advice is completely wrong.

What goes hand-in-hand with this flaw is the idea of unconditional love from a woman, just like the love your mother gives. The kind of love that you grew up to want but will never be granted to you. If you still have this narrative in mind, stop and think about why any woman would grant you such a courtesy pre-wall, unless she is of very low value. It’s a whole lot easier for them to simply find someone better than you. If you’re fine with a low SMV girl then good for you.

Alternatively, embrace change and work on your SMV. Analyse your strengths and weaknesses. Work on that which needs work. This month has been great with ‘NoNothingNovember’, Monk-Mode, etc. It’s great to see that we’re not alone in the struggle and what others are achieving.

Transitioning to red takes time and the duration will differ from person to person. It’s dependent on your past experiences and your current motivation to pursue/embrace knowledge.

If you put in the hard yards sooner rather than later, things will be simpler when you’re older. You’ll have a greater pick of the women &/or have a life that you’ve built for yourself and your needs. You won’t be one of these guys that over indulge in short-term gratification; video games, junk food, alcohol, porn or anything that is personally destructive.