Future Warning

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August 6, 2019
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So... for a bit of backstory;

I'm a 17 year old that comes from a middle eastern background, thus have been raised by some of TRP core ideals (women should be submissive, males dominant) etc, and a year ago I had stumbled across TRP. I enjoyed reading it and agreed with everything.

Fast forward a bit, I started dating this girl who both TRP & my father would strongly advise not to engage with. This girl had many red flags including things such as: smoker, mental disorders (bipolar, strong BPD symptoms, daddy issues, EXTREME feminist - to the point where she said men don't deserve mental health awareness as they oppressed women before) etc. Ended up dating her for 11 months....

I disregarded everything I have EVER learnt about a woman-male relationship, and believed that TRP was bullshit and that this one would be different, and we love each other, and we'll last, and that i'll save her from her issues. How fucking wrong was I. Throughout the constant lying, manipulation, toxicity, isolation.. I put up with it for 11 months because I thought it'll get brighter at the end.

Throughout the 11 months, I stopped reading TRP and gave up on frame and let her in. About a week ago we got into a fight about some shit to do with sexism and then she said I can't be with someone like you and I just said 'Ok cool" and walked away. Later she texted me claiming I was the one who left her as I did not 'fight for her.' Classic. Fast forward 2 days, she calls me crying and begging me to take her back and that she'll change, I set boundaries and then when she agreed took her back.

2 days later, I told her I don't think I want a relationship, she said she'll give me a week to think about it, I made it extremely clear that I would need loyalty from her during this break and she agreed. Throughout this week, she went partying and to a guy's house who I didn't know, when I confronted her about it she simply told me he was gay and went on to brag to me about how much he makes and how he takes her driving (he is 19) etc. The last day during this break I told her I'm still not 100% and she stayed over at his and this time posted a picture of him shirtless in a bed, the next day I grilled her about him not being gay and she finally gave in after 30 minutes that he wasn't.

Fast forward to Monday after some intense TRP digesting and reading, everything came back to me, I broke it off with her at school, she told me I was just leaving someone loyal to me that cared about me, and that she "didn't fuck him." After our voices started getting louder I just walked away as I did not want any drama.

Now for the finale - on that same day, she went to his house, tonight she's at his house right now posting videos on her snapchat of them in a bed, him shirtless. "I swear I love this house more then I love you" - her caption. This is a future warning to ANYONE who wants to disregard TRP. Love does not exist, I have learned that, emotions don't exist, they're just hormones being released in your brain. What does exist is the biological nature of a man and a woman. This girl was probably cheating on me the whole 11 months. What i'm most thankful for is that I didn't stop lifting throughout it - currently chatting up 5 different girls.

Also, I know this is where questions go but my karma is too low to post on main website and needed to vent. Apologies.


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Title Future Warning
Author Yuitelein
Upvotes 92
Comments 40
Date 06 August 2019 12:55 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/248567
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/cmq82p/future_warning/
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[–]Jesusfeminist33 points34 points  (2 children) | Copy

Sometimes you just gotta go against everybody and learn the hard way

[–]Project_Zero_Betas1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Can confirm.

[–]30dirtyfingers1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I too, can confirm

[–][deleted] 33 points34 points  (14 children) | Copy

Speaking of Middle East, can you tell me few things about men in there?

Middle Easterns I've met in Europe were much more manly and dominant than the pussies I usually meet, and that's got to be from less media influence and strong parenting in there?

Edit: Not just men. Women that came from ME to Europe basically see our men as easy task. If you know what I mean.

[–]Yuitelein 1 points [recovered]  (7 children) | Copy

Yeah definitely - By what I've seen, all middle eastern men are extremely dominant. They choose their wives based on family wealth, background with men (must always be a virgin) etc.

We live in Australia and my dad is a business owner so he gets many calls from bankers etc, and when he is frustrated with someone, he shows it without giving a fuck about what gender they are. Most women I've seen him argue with are you usually shocked that he would talk to them the way he does.

My dad has always brought me up telling me "women are trouble", and "i'm better off single" since an early age. My mum has also brought me up telling me that white women here only marry you to divorce you later and steal half your money, and conditioned me to believe they're all entitled, they both extremely want me to marry an arab for those reasons.

My mum is a housewife, my dad works, when my dad comes home he is greeted to with a nice meal and when he's asleep on the couch she puts a blanket over him. She treats him like her king, and in return he is her rock. Extremely traditional and far from what I've seen from all the white relationships I have seen and regrettably, my former one.

[–][deleted] 23 points24 points  (5 children) | Copy

They're not that wrong but you should still be careful. Arab women were influenced with social media too and all the feminist bs. Even now it would be hard for you to find a good wife, especially if she isn't raised in ME.

Also you're only 17, you still got at least 10 years of single life. Don't ruin in with marriage, that is unless marriage is something you really want.

If you have a sister you can also pay attention on what your mother is telling her about getting quality men.. You could hear some nasty shit you'd never think would come from your mother's mouth.

Edit: Try to spend as much more time with your father if you aren't already. You should learn from him and try to get as masculine as he is.

[–]Yuitelein 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

You're right and no I don't think I'll be rushing into any kind of relationship after my last one, marriage is definitely not something I want till at least 30.

And I do have an older sister and most of the shit I have heard my mum say about men is mainly about money. I do see middle eastern female's manipulative side through my sister as she has had 2 exes that she made cry on the phone with me directly opposite her and watching her trying to hide her laugh.

Also they had spent heaps of money on her and it honestly was fucked up but I didn't blame her one bit, in fact In my opinion, the men were at fault. She has also however been there for me and is extremely glad I left my LTR and am returning back to my masculine state that I have been raised into. She also has taught me that women are all out to get me and has said shit like "if i was a man I'd put my dick in every hole I see, that's what you need to do"

Definitely appreciative of my family.

[–]surrealismen1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Even middle eastern women here are getting influenced by feminism. Better off getting one from the home country than here in the west if u want to marry. Source: am middle eastern

[–]Walkerstain0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Which middle eastern country are you from though? I've been told that most middle eastern women reserve their virginity till marriage.

[–]omega_dawg932 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

fwiu, pussy has to be virgin.

asshole and mouf... well that's optional.

[–]ramjaz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Middle Easterns represent

[–]overl9rd6 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy

ME men in Europe may seem dominant but most women swerve them as they are creeps and can tell they have a bad attitude towards to them. They see White women as "something to fuck" and nothing else. I heard my fair share of horror stories how they "used" white girls, and that they are "easy" and then word gets out and people/girls avoid talking to them. Happened at school, university, work and play. Their mindset is fine in the Middle East but not really in the West.

[–]Garathon3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

They also resort to rape. Hugely overrepresented in sexual assault statistics.

[–]overl9rd2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Do you remember this event in the news? 2,000 ME guys sexually assaulted girls on New Years in Germany. So big it has it's own article on Wikipedia now

[–]Jesusfeminist2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Imagine putting a bunch of guys who are only used to seeing girl’s eyes next to a bunch of 18 yo in short skirts twearking

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

Well the creepy ones are the low SMV ones. More educated and intelligent ones, that is socially acceptable ones, are usually fine for women. They don't complain.

You'd also be surprised how many women actually go for those that are low level creeps, but they don't brag about it as those men are well not so much liked, it hurts their reputation. I know several girls (some undeage ones too), hooked up with ME guy, got what they wanted but the guy wouldn't let them leave relationship or whatever they've had afterwards. Resulted in beating and such, but some of them were afraid to ask for help because they didn't want to be associated with these men.

[–]overl9rd4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

The ones that came to the West decades ago and completed their studies (PhDs and what not) are fully integrated and cool and women rightly like them. But the new ones that came from War Zones like Syria and hang out on street corners and harass girls (like the Afghan in Sweden that attacked Asap Rocky) are the creeps that I'm talking about.

I doubt the underage girls that you speak about, actually seek out these people. They are most likely groomed and targeted because they are young and vulnerable by older ME men. Speaking anecdotally I had to intervene and push a ME guy off a girl in a club because she declined his advances and he began pulling her arm, coat, and bag aggressively towards him and yet no one saw this. Girl was looking at me with a help me look. I pulled him off, guy was a creep that who tried to smile and laugh and become my friend. He backed off when I clenched my fist ready to punch him.

Also I frequently see jobless ME-men hang inside in coffee shops all day trying to pick up the female workers. When I tried to speak to one female worker, I could see the evil eyes in the corner of the room staring at me to warning me away (lol). Other times I've seen Somalia guy grab a white girl's ass when she was walking down the street, I came to see what was a happening, I think police came as she went nuts and started screaming and guy was just smiling and laughing. These types are undoubtedly the worst and so low SMW that they cause upset to women and must be shunned.

[–]majuman8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Very nice self reflection you got going there.

Some mistakes you just have to try out.

Its always easy to read something and to think "its different in my case".

Sometimes it is, most times its not. - maju

[–]ColdBeing4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Your teenage years is nothing but puppy love. Don't get into a serious relationship until you're in your 20s

[–]Andgelyo5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Until you are in your 30s.

[–]ScabbyAnkles8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

.

[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It just can't be sustained with craziness and abuse.

Fancy that

[–]L3onard38 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy

on her snapchat of them in a bed, him shirtless. "I swear I love this house more then I love you" - her caption.

Again why are you on snap? And why are you following her? Leaders never follow.

[–]Yuitelein 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

You are correct, Unfollowed and removed just like that. Bitches ain’t shit. A man’s best friend is isolation.

[–]TFWnoLTR24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy

A man's best friend is himself. I much prefer this wording. Isolation isn't healthy in the long term. You should be social, but only on your own terms.

[–]L3onard35 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Now delete snap.

[–]omega_dawg935 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

dude... get in your books and get your education prioritised.

there will be lots & lots of women later. you should be focused on you, you, your future, your goals, and you.

let them sluts do what they do... slut it up!

[–]CapitalismSavedUs2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm a Brazilian 17 and something like this happened to me some months ago. I'm glad that you can continue on TRP like me, we have a great future upcoming without persons like these in our lives.

Great Job =)

[–]Protocol_Apollo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

No question but decent FR.

This is an incredibly toxic girl and you were right to leave her. Her lying and need for validation from other guys are also red flags that you should screen for her with other girls.

Vet your women carefully, don’t hop onto a relationship just because a girl is good looking. This process is meant to take a few months at least. Women are extremely good at hiding potential red flags so you need time to keep prodding her armour to see the chinks

Now, I know you are angry but aren’t you speculating about the cheating bit when you were together?

If you weren’t speculating and always had a feeling, then my advice would be always trust your gut

[–]A-Merks-ican1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Be careful friend. These women (girls) can be incredibly vindictive. She will try and fuck with you in ways you might not be able to imagine now. There may even be some type of legal trouble.

Watch your back.

[–]Alcatraz-121 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sounds like my ex, and sounds like the way I treated her and the way she treated me. Glad we're both out bro.

I also have arabic origins btw

[–]drunkPKMNtrainer1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bro, you put yourself into this and now you are basing all love and future relationships on this experience. You said it yourself, you ignored the red flags. Chill out. This girl is just stupid.

[–]overl9rd1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You asked to be loyal in the break, yet she didn't even wait a 2 days to jump into bed with another man. Yikes

[–]Flintblood0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You’re too young to worry yourself with any LTR and any kind of dating drama. Just work on your mission and you. The end

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Real love is like real cake. Walmart sells the most volume; it’s cheap. It doesn’t taste real even though you might try to convince yourself otherwise on a birthday or holiday but it isn’t real; it’s an imitation.

However, journey the cold path up north to St. Petersburg and for $20/slice you might find something that’s as close to love as you‘ll get.

[–]goomerall30 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You learned your lesson

[–]WoodWizzy870 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. Most women don’t deserve the security of being a wife anymore these days.

[–]ixyfang0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The iron is never really hot until you touch it yourself.

[–]rnsbrum0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She wasn't yours. It was just your turn. These girls are OK for platting/having fun, but not for a LTR.

[–]MatSapientia-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’ll leave a scar on you. A lesson to learn.

Enjoy the privilege of being raised a RP, didn’t succumb to crappy feminist ideals. They never work.



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