Any advice for the gifted people?

FereallyRed · 2019-08-02T15:05:08+00:00

You're an arrogant fuck who hides behind pseudointellectualism and posturing.

If you were really smart you'd realize you have to play the game if you want the prize, despite how "beneath you" it may seem.

Use that massive brain to achieve what you want.

MattyAnon · 2019-08-02T15:19:45+00:00

blah blah blah gifted

You probably are. But be careful: that youtube video will show a false positive for people who are warped / different / ADD / schizophrenic. Saying that children that don't want to play nicely with other children must be gifted is just plain wrong.

But it's apparently not good for dating as the girl usually get annoyed by my questions or see me as a nerd. They don't seem to be interested in the same subjects. / Do you have any advice for me?

You're seeing this all wrong.

You've been brought up on all the soul mate and equality shit, so you're looking for a girl who you can talk to on the same level as yourself.

The top level of intelligence for men has almost no equivalent in women. We show a wider spread of intelligence. So if you're at the top, there will be almost no women your equal.

Also as you say: they're not interested in the same subjects. Women are much more "how does this benefit me exactly?" rather than your more abstract thinking.

Women have their place in your life, but they are not going to be your intellectual equal, they are not going to be your phillosophical talking buddy.

They're great to fuck and sometimes you can have a great bond with them, and occasionally some of them are worth spending more time with. But it has to be based on physical attraction and it will still be rare.

effyouasshole · 2019-08-02T14:58:45+00:00

I show a lot of strong feelings and emotions.

So you're saying emotions control your behavior? That's a problem. You should be controlling them, instead of the other way around.

as the girl usually get annoyed by my questions or see me as a nerd

That's what happens when smart guys talk to thots. Find the smart women. They sploosh when hearing a guy talk about something intelligently.

gaunernick · 2019-08-02T15:01:25+00:00

You probably need more empathy. It's not all just about you, when you are having a conversation.

jjj2576 · 2019-08-02T16:12:24+00:00

Have you read the Book of Pook?

celmeme · 2019-08-02T16:56:50+00:00

If you cannot figure out how to avoid being a 'sperg you are not intelligent. If you cannot find people you mesh well with you are not intelligent. If you think having a 130 IQ is intelligent, you are not intelligent. If you were "almost murdered by a friend" you are not intelligent. If you want to get a tattoo to commemorate the time you were "betrayed and almost murdered by a friend" you are not intelligent.

TL;DR

You're not special. Also post body.

boy_named_su · 2019-08-02T18:21:28+00:00

You asked your question in a slightly off-putting way, but I understand what you're saying

I'm somewhat in the same boat as you are. Top 0.1% IQ, academic success. Lack of success with women in my younger days

What I can tell you that worked for me was to become a social chameleon. I grew up poor, but can hang w the ultra rich and no one notices. I have a good job and grad degree and teach grad school sometimes, but can hang with druggie low lifes and they're friendly

I would begin by reading The 48 Laws of Power, and by watching lots of stand-up comedy, and consider going on a psilocybin trip. Use that big brain of yours to figure out what different kind of people like and want to talk about

I basically ask a lot of deep, abstract questions because I crave to learn every day.

You're not gonna learn shit from girls, so don't ask. Learn on your own time

I show a lot of strong feelings and hate injustices.

Showing strong feelings is for women and the mentally weak. Start reading some Epictetus. He's a Greek philosopher

I hate talking about things I find too easy and repetitive.

You're going to need to open your mind to get along with women...also, if you're having problems with women, it's because you haven't figured them out yet, so start working on that

haxewep24 · 2019-08-02T18:44:21+00:00

Ohhh poor snowflake

TehJimmyy · 2019-08-02T14:58:52+00:00

you arent any different really. use the search button / sidebar

FollowerTRP · 2019-08-02T15:02:30+00:00

If you are so smart and intelligent, read the sidebar and it will be piece of cake for you to learn how to properly navigate conversation in order to make date lead to sex.

It's not that complicated really. And you can be flexible and have fun if you have good social and common sense.

Title	Any advice for the gifted people?
Author	Flying_legs
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Comments	23
Date	August 2, 2019 2:54 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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