If anyone is curious as to what my last post was: tldr for the first time ever I got denied sex by my ltr. I got some really good advice.

I listened to the advice you guys gave me. After it happened I didn’t show any signs of being butthurt and played it off cool. I immediately stopped giving her attention as I normally do. I practically ignored her so hard that she had to ask me an hour before our date whether or not I was still coming/busy and where we’d meet/logistics.

I show to the date and she’s a bit mad at me for ignoring her but not completely mad. I ignore/pass all the shit tests she throws at me. She mentioned how she hated how I wasn’t sharing my life with her.

By the time we headed back to her place her anger disappeared and she was really fucking excited. TLDR I got my dick sucked and she hadn’t done it in like a month. Thanks again for the advice guys, it’s crazy how much not validating does/how far it gets u.

Can’t find the main sub reddit/thought I’d update u guys. If mods wanna take this down, go for it.