If you have vetted her and her actions indicate only green flags while you also keep up an abundance mentality, exercise/lift, and constantly improve your SMV while leading up to the decision that she is who you want/ want to marry. So essentially following what I understand of the TRP LTR sidebar guidelines and TRP philosophy.

Is it ok to have oneitis for a woman you want to LTR? What if that is what you want? That you care so much about her that you care enough to stop abundance mentality? All this while you keep up with your friends/family, your hobbies, and all the other things listed above, except abundance mentality. It appears to me that oneitis and abundance mentality are polar opposites. Or, are all smv boosters aside from abundance mentality co-dependant on abundance mentality? Certainly all this depends on the stage/timeline of your relationship. But what if you really like/love this girl? Does anyone have any success stories of not using abundance mentality and succeeding in a relationship?

Also, there is the special case of having already LTR’d her and now you want to marry her (I understand TRP’s position on marriage)?

I get that dread game is: your woman must know that you can pull other women and that sex is non-negotiable.

Lastly, there’s also the fact that TRP is a toolbox and we are all meant to pick and choose what tools we use.