Dudes who have been cheated on, did she twist it to be your fault or did she take responsobility?

_Legendairy_ · 2019-08-24T18:50:00+00:00

Girls are pretty much incapable of taking responsibility.

It’s the hamster.

RedSkeller · 2019-08-24T19:00:41+00:00

she take responsibility

Women will do anything and everything to avoid this

hedden93 · 2019-08-24T19:41:41+00:00

Lol she knew she fucked up but she played the victim role to all her friends and texted them all that I was an asshole . . . even though I was really a nice guy beta bucks. After she cheated on me she got suicidal and I helped her almost everyday while she was still living with me. The whole time she was shit talking me and still talking to the guy she cheated on me with (she promised she blocked him). That's when I realized no matter what a woman will twist it to whatever they want so just be authenticly you and never comprise your integrity.

javascript_dev · 2019-08-24T19:01:55+00:00

People in general are very good at spinning reality to protect their ego.

PandaLitter · 2019-08-24T19:06:15+00:00

Pushed me to the edge to do something wrong just so she could break up with me and not feel like a bitch because she had another guy.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-08-24T23:41:51+00:00

Cheaters aren't people who have a strong sense of guilt or responsibility in the first place.

They usually try to play the victim, and they may legitimately feel that way.

Bobby_Says_No · 2019-08-24T23:31:00+00:00

Oddly enough, she took responsibility, I think it was down to the situation though. She didn't tell me about the cheating, I found out quickly because i'm a fairly well known guy, so if people see the girl i'm going out with doing some shady stuff, people let me know. At first I was unsure if it was true, but a few sources told me, so right away I just broke up with her and completely removed her from my life, that was it, no drama, just bam, done. I think she was so shocked by my actions, most women are used to guy that would beg, plead etc etc, but instead I just dumped her like she was nothing. I just dumped her straight away via text, she didn't deserve my time for a face to face imo, she didn't reply to the text and I didn't hear from her for a month or so after dumping her, but when I did she took responsibility. From what i've heard around socially she has as well, for example, acquaintances we both share, she told them that she fucked up etc, she hasn't spoken ill of me at all. When she got in touch taking responsibility for it she was also trying to get me back, ofc I didn't take her back though. Whenever she see's me out in public she makes sure to come over and talk to me too, I find that strange so I just politely dismiss her.

AnEyeForAnAye · 2019-08-24T21:45:05+00:00

i thought I had a unicorn. AWALT of course.. of course.

But the words 'well it was kinda your fault too' were hilarious but not inaccurate I suppose.

Got lazy/no ambition/became too beta bux/ and lost my fitness so the 'it was also your fault while retarded sure, it does have some merit. It is as if they are saying 'you weren't keeping/raising your SMV and now you're beneath me'.

frick-a-frack · 2019-08-24T19:18:24+00:00

Females don’t take responsibility for it. Even when face to face with full evidence of their transgressions. At least, every experience I’ve had or observed.

Garathon · 2019-08-25T01:37:34+00:00

Of course she twisted it.

kaikaipanda · 2019-08-25T05:00:41+00:00

“you see, for the 5 years we’ve been together, i never cheated on you once, you really have to think about what made me cheat on you. so it’s really not my fault, you can only blame yourself baby”

“i know i cheated on you but i really love you and I WANT YOU TO TAKE ME BACK!”

Unlikely_Composer · 2019-08-25T08:23:49+00:00

She took responsibility after I put her in a situation where she had no other choices. Some people are too childish to do anything beyond eating and sleeping. Avoid them.

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2019-08-25T17:21:18+00:00

Lol @ a woman taking responsibility in a situation like this.

it's called "manning up" for a reason! That's because we have the balls to come clean on matters.

BeeBopJoe · 2019-08-26T04:02:19+00:00

In my case, she actually took responsibility. I probably wouldn't have known she cheated if she didn't bring it up.

Title	Dudes who have been cheated on, did she twist it to be your fault or did she take responsobility?
Author	swagswag1000
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Comments	27
Date	August 24, 2019 6:45 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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