Been having sex with this girl for 9 months now. Meeting up 1-2x a week. Every time I meet up with her we have sex, but we have been doing activities before...playing basketball,dinner,drinks,bowling..etc. I do have fun with her but she brought up the talk with me...

She knows I’m dating other girls and said that she is dating other guys but none catch her interest like I do. She said it’s because I had a “didn’t care attitude” ..she asked if we could be exclusive in so many words and I told her some things about her that hold me back from that, like her being passive aggressive at times...she gives some mean head and always fun in bed too...not sure what to do

On one hand if I always hold frame in the relationship I could always just leave if I’m not liking it ...on the other hand I know trp is about spinning plates and focusing on your grind and that could be good too