I’m in my senior year of college right now, and honestly I’m surrounded by studs. I’m living with a 6’6” athletic basketball player, a kid working on Wall St. next year, an Abercrombie model/track star, and a ripped sociable guy. I feel like I have the least value in the group, and whenever any girls come along I’m the last option to consider so I never get any action. I always feel like the guys take over my spot when someone I think that’s cute shows up.

How much of it is in my head vs. how much should I use to actually try improving - and in what way or capacity?