How can I meet girls if I commute and study STEM?

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-09-10T09:42:44+00:00

Theres worse things than not having sex, let's start with that.

Find a living place closer to uni, go out with peers and fidn parties.
Find dance events etc of music you like to go and go there. Especially drug fueled parties are the places where you'll make new friends quite rapidly.

ZabuzAli · 2019-09-10T13:24:32+00:00

I’m also currently a first year studying Comp Sci in Australia, so I understand your situation. It is indeed filled with 95% spergs and 80-90% Asian. Here is what I’ve done so far:

Go to all classes. This maximises your opportunity to socialise and meet people
Talk to anyone in your course/classes that you can stand
If your course allows it (mine does), pick an elective or two in the humanities that you’re interested in. I’m doing philosophy and politics, which are women dominated and have less spergs
Be present. Don’t just go to classes and leave. Go to the uni bar, cafe, study in the library. Strike up conversations with people outside of your course
Cold approach. This is where I have gotten most success. You should be doing this no matter what.

Aside from all this, make sure your studies come first. Be on your purpose, keep busy.

BusterVadge · 2019-09-10T11:12:48+00:00

Stop being a pussy and stop making excuses. I was a software engineer for years (mechanic before that, but still).

Forget about looking for women inside of your career circle. It's all sjw/progressive chicks who will give you trouble.

You need to make some friends outside of that circle whether it be at the gym or elsewhere. It's not that hard and will only happen when you stop using your career path as an excuse not creating a social circle.

sjswander94 · 2019-09-10T10:10:37+00:00

Do you go to a big university. If so you can always cold approach on campus. You also must have some type of bar scene almost every college does. Go out.

collegeboywooooo · 2019-09-10T15:53:05+00:00

I also go to a college filled with sjw nerds and I study math.

Here is what I do:

-Don't fucking commute! maybe this year you can't help it but next year ideally you want to be staying in a house with a bunch of dudes that throw parties, or at least have a some roommates or be in the dorms. If you do commute, never be at home unless you are sleeping or have people over, period. You can study at the library. If you are at home you are almost always wasting your time and being an incel, its just how it is. Don't watch a show without someone else there too, don't eat a meal without someone else there too, etc.

-Go to the university gym and be social with the people there. You should already be going to the gym if you are on this forum.

-Go to the library common area when you study and be social there.

-Be social with every person in your classes that isn't a complete lost cause. Walk into your class and have people hype greeting you with handshakes and stuff. You gotta be the man, and any girls in your class will notice (even if its just 2 semi-attractive ones). You wan't to be the guy making the group chats and shit leading the class and setting stuff up. Then its easy to get in contact with any girls and they can lead you to other social groups with more girls.

-Ask people that obviously/probably do drugs about their dealer and buy weed from him. Even if you don't do drugs or care about that at all (I don't) you need to befriend this person and they are an easy in to parties (but don't be needy or act like you have no life obviously).

-When you are out swimming or at a local park or whatever with some friends, don't just talk to those people you are with. Talk to anyone else that is there also, including girls. The fact you have some people with you that are interacting with you is already social proof and make it really easy to meet new people.

-I skateboard and that leads me to some pretty easy social connections.

Similar things that help could be:

-playing music in a band or something and being a part of the uni music scene

-vlogging or making movies and joining that community if it exists at your school

If you really can't make any social connections, consider getting a part time job as a waiter at some place with a lot of students. Just work there long enough to start hanging out with your coworkers and then quit but keep those connections.

Once you have at least a decent social circle start inviting a few dudes to play ultimate frisbee or soccer or something, then inviting girls to play too. Like start a "club" doing some group activity but don't actually make it a club, just get people meeting for something where you are the leader. Start throwing kickbacks and invite people that you met from all above methods, including girls.

Also don't forget local girls not in your university. If their are local schools, you want to have connections there as well. If you can invite kids from your school to another schools party you will seem like a legend. It's pretty easy to flirt with randos waiting tables or lifeguards or whatever and you don't have to worry about crazy title IX feminist shit, bad reputation and gossip, and often they aren't so prudish and preppy (and more attractive).
Get tinder just cuz its another source of girls, but unless you are ripped and have a very attractive face I doubt it will do you much good. Get a couple hookups and connections off it but don't expect much.

TheGoblinTurkey · 2019-09-10T16:49:04+00:00

Find out the major uni nights, grab a friend or two and go to them.

Title	How can I meet girls if I commute and study STEM?
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Date	September 10, 2019 9:23 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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