Hey all,

Been seeing a girl for about two months now - things are casual. See her once a week - usually go on a hike, out to dinner, or do something fun then have lots of sex.

I can tell she really likes me and is into me. So far I've done a pretty good job mainting frame / dominance.

She texted me to hang out 2 weeks back and I was busy so I forgot to get back to her. She texted me again a week later while I was on a river trip away from my phone so I didn't respond for another 3 days.

She came over and spent two days at my place this past week. She brought up the fact that I hadn't texted her back. Tole me "I was ready to write you off. I was ready to move on." So I said I was busy and apologized. Also told her in a subtle manner that I wasn't ready for a commitment since it takes away time from my career pursuits.

Shen then "accidentally" shows me a picture of her and Chad on her phone from a date she had earlier in the week. Could have been an old photo or a recent one. Not sure. Regardless unfortunately I became a bit reactive and let my emotions get to me and became cold and disengaged right after she showed me the photo. Vibe entirely shifted and I was pretty cold and removed for the remainder of the night which she sensed. Def lost frame. She's tried to demonstrate to me before that she has options and I never gave a shit. Not this time.

Woke up the next day and had a couple hours of sex with her before going to breakfast. Was in her frame during breakfast as she demonstrated how many options she had for dating and I acted a bit beta / insecure during the interaction. Think she sensed it at least on a subconscious level.

Dropped her off at her car and she comfort tested me with "will I ever see you again?" which I took as a good sign - she is still invested in the relationship.

My question is - will girls show you all their options, try to make you jealous in order to get you to commit?