There's no game

raziphel · 2020-09-24T14:02:56+00:00

Instead of trying to 'game' others, just learn how to communicate clearly and effectively. Yes this includes body language and other forms of non-verbal communication.

Learn to recognize the tactics of emotional manipulation for what they are... and don't do those things to other people. Don't let others do those things to you either. Women are turned off by those things because they have to deal with them all the time.

And recognize that you can do everything right and still not succeed. That doesn't actually mean you failed - it's just a part of life. Learn to accept that with grace and move on. Besides, who would want to be with someone that you have to trick or convince to go out with you anyway? That's just self-defeating.

JimBeamAndCoke2016 · 2020-09-24T09:25:52+00:00

All game has achieved is massively complicating something that is out of your control, and is just a result of your looks and confidence. It's made millionaires out of con artists and fleeced poor unsuspecting men who were never going to succeed in the dating market anyway.

Swordfish1762 · 2020-09-24T11:35:01+00:00

Absolute truth! Dating isn't difficult, but endless study and use of "game" makes you overthink a simple situation and turn it into your own personal nightmare.

thecrazytexan · 2020-09-24T15:57:37+00:00

I would add 'timing' to the list of things it boils down to. You could be the most interesting handsomest best opener in the world. But if the timing isn't right? No chance in hell. And you don't get to decide what's a good time

defo18 · 2020-09-24T13:34:25+00:00

It would help if everyone would stop saying that you need game all the time but maybe people would believe in him calm down but when I was younger that's all everybody told me was to have game

And what you posted is completely correct so much of dating is not in our control and you could have so many good traits on paper but it all depends on the girl

Something a man says or does can be creepy or attractive depending on the girl and how she takes it

RedPillDetox · 2020-09-24T16:28:32+00:00

Dating is largely a numbers game, particularly if you're doing the cold apprach scene or the internet dating scene.
Dating is largely dictated by actual tangible stuff like looks, status, money and a based personality.
Game shit is simply a set of auxiliary social influence tactics. All these games and pretenses of playing hard to get, eye contact, frame control and all that shit may help you in certain situations and that's about it. It sure as shit is not the most important aspect of dating success, nor is it a "method" like PUA likes to advertise. Many people with no "game" whatsoever manage to get laid just because they are actually attractive. And in many cases, this game shit firebacks tremendously, actually doing more harm than good. If you're going arround with a smirk in your face doing "frame control" and "amused mastery" and all that shit, there's a chance you're gonna come across as try hard, creepy and there's also many people who simply don't have patient for playing games whatsoever.

zoemondo · 2020-09-24T18:22:12+00:00

I asked my boyfriend if guys really do talk about their "game." He said the only guys that do that are losers who hang out at bars and creep on women.

mono1110 · 2020-09-24T15:46:16+00:00

Women don't care eye contact. I have been blaming myself for this.

Tell me why this is true..Maybe your explanation will boost my confidence.

novel_antle · 2020-09-24T16:31:21+00:00

I think there's some truth to game BUT it's sold as this "do this and that and she'll choke on your cock" which is absolute bullshit. I think if it was phrased more neutral instead of as a pseudo-psychochological manual there are some things that can help. Be bold and don't fear rejection, don't be afraid to touch someone, don't be intimidated and try to get a girl with 0815 compliments. Just treat her like you would a guy in terms of humor. All that does sound not bad IMO.

However to think you'll get laid because you behave like a massive asshole is bullshit.

Title	There's no game
Author	imbecile_keshig
Upvotes	33
Comments	24
Date	September 24, 2020 3:02 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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