CMV: One can be a feminist AND have RedPill views.

alreadyredschool · 2017-06-06T13:06:01+00:00

Post this under the <topic> weekly mega thread.

goatismycopilot · 2017-06-06T12:01:36+00:00

People are shallow, always. I have rarely if ever seen a plain jane with a GQ model type. What I typically see in the course of daily life is couples being relatively evenly matched in terms of looks being together. Saying women are more shallow because you saw some GQ guy and a plain jane is bullshit.

People can be careless with another's heart, yes. I know lots of women who had their hearts crushed who cried buckets of tears and felt shitty. Your friend is drinking like a fish because he wants to drink like a fish.

A man will not stick by a woman through thick and thin. I can think of a few women in my acquaintance circle who had serious illness and their husbands withdrew or left and the marriage ended because the men said they could not handle it. The difference is that does not lead me to conclude all menz are bad.

This idea that TRP people promote that men are more pure, selfless, honorable, love more grandly, is some fanciful crap.

MarriedLifter · 2017-06-06T11:26:56+00:00

Women are very careless with men's hearts. Women will break a man's hear so bad he becomes an alcoholic. I have a friend of mine who loves this woman, but she broke up with him and ever since then he's been drinking like a fish.

Honestly, even if she's a totally shitty human being, this is on him. If you deal with human beings in any way, then eventually you're going to get burned. If you hang out with decent people and you look carefully for red flags, sure, you'll get burned less. But you can't escape it.

All you can do with shitty people is get them the hell out of your life ASAP, and treat it as a cause for celebration. Have some pride, and don't be a thirsty idiot with terminal oneitis for somebody who isn't into you.

Women cannot love a man like a man loves a woman. A man will stick by a woman thick or thin. A woman will leave the man the second he loses his job.

And men are more likely to bail if their wife gets brain cancer:

When Dr. Marc Chamberlain, a Seattle oncologist, was treating his brain cancer patients, he noticed an alarming pattern. His male patients were typically receiving much-needed support from their wives. But a number of his female patients were going it alone, ending up separated or divorced after receiving a brain tumor diagnosis.

...Women in the study who were told they had a serious illness were seven times as likely to become separated or divorced as men with similar health problems, according to the report published in the journal Cancer.

So both genders include their fair share of shitty people, even if it shows up slightly differently.

goatismycopilot · 2017-06-06T12:12:51+00:00

Why do I have a feeling this OP is either an incel or a semi-cel?

TheGreasyPole · 2017-06-06T12:38:05+00:00

None of the things in your first paragraph are feminist per se. I believe all of those things too, and I'm no feminist either.

So....yup..... You can definitely believe all of those things and be RP, I do and am.

(Except I have no idea what WIC is... and I support equal pay on the "adjusted" 3% pay gap, not in the 23% raw figure).

Your other points are more standard RP stuff, and strangely here is where I probably disagree with you more.

Men can just as easily break hearts as women and frankly guys need to be less fragile. The universe doesn't owe it to you to treat you like a Ming Vase. Toughen up. If your heart is getting broken that YOUR problem, not the chicks problem. She's just doing what she has to do, just as you do what you need to do in life.
Men don't love women in the unconditional way you believe they do either. You're right that a woman would break up with a guy because he lost his job, but guys would break up with chicks because she got fat (for example). The "triggers" would be different by sex, but neither males nor females love unconditionally except for children. STOP demanding women treat you like a child, and love you unconditionally. You are NOT a child anymore, come and live with us grown ups in the adult world where you are responsible for your actions. Including actions that cause conditional love (which is what we all feel) to fade.

If you think any adult loves any other adult "unconditionally" you've got some growing up still to do.

Littleknownfacts · 2017-06-06T11:26:36+00:00

Ugh more of this male honor BS?

roseria97 · 2017-06-06T13:00:01+00:00

Again with the gender specific bullshit assumptions, I understand that trp tend to generalise women behaviour but you cannot base these points about women being shallow and men being more accepting etc. based on your own fucking experiences. P.s the only thing worse than being "ugly" or "short" is complaining about how "ugly" or "short" you actually are.

[deleted] · 2017-06-06T12:46:41+00:00

RPINOS?

Title	CMV: One can be a feminist AND have RedPill views.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	6
Comments	53
Date	June 6, 2017 6:06 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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