What do you think of this friendly approach advice?

trpobserver · 2017-03-30T18:49:11+00:00

Yes this is great advice. Spot on and how it happens IRL at least IME.

Like, I can blow through 30-40 "sets" in one night and two or three bars without anyone thinking I'm trying to pick up anyone.

You literally just say 'hi [stupid small talk here]" and their response and vibe says it all. From there you can just d/c talking or pursue it further.

That's how you get laid and play the numbers game hardcore. Literally saying 'hi' to 100 women would do more for the average dude than anything in TRP or manosphere or even TBP lol.

Edit: And I DISAGREE that you are "creating" sexual attraction. There's a spark and a vibe present between you and her from the get-go. If it's there, fan the flame. IF it isn't, gtfo.

SetConsumes · 2017-03-30T18:32:14+00:00

Basic social skills. It's neutral and fine, but it doesn't help men that are good at conversation yet don't create sexual attraction. This will pretty much work mostly for already masculine enough men.

SmurfESmurferson · 2017-03-30T18:52:52+00:00

My question is how does someone make it to adulthood without figuring that out on their own?

Ercole-- · 2017-04-01T09:24:18+00:00

This is neutral advice. Being friendly and having flowing conversation can lead somewhere. It becomes Red when you intend to lead it there yourself and Blue when you see that as manipulation and choose to let the "spark" naturally occur.

Most things are agreed upon and the argument is in the details. Even Practice your smile is neutral and can be Red or Blue.

Red: Smile like you do when you're about to fuck a girl, more of a contented smirk. Your smile should be earned though, so only when she smiles at you or genuinely amuses you.

Blue: Practice being genuinely happy and smile all the time so she knows you're a nice fun loving guy.

BPremium · 2017-03-30T19:11:00+00:00

He basically says be hot before you even try, so its kind of shitty advice

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reepbot · 2017-03-31T00:44:29+00:00

Funny how if you tried those approaches in the world of online dating you would be laughed at, but in the real world it is perfectly acceptable.

Monkey_Jerk · 2017-03-31T00:52:43+00:00

Brilliant advice

Also lol at "what do you do for work?" right off the bat.

lbspredh · 2017-03-31T12:43:31+00:00

Being friendly is a great way to make friends

Title	What do you think of this friendly approach advice?
Author	trpobserver
Upvotes	3
Comments	39
Date	March 30, 2017 6:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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