What do you think about the large number of idealistic men in society that are genuinely surprised by female dating patterns?

alreadyredschool · 2016-09-09T09:41:29+00:00

^ my flair explains my stance on idealistic matters.

2016-09-09T09:57:30+00:00

The surprise factor comes from the fact that you have idealized a certain image of women in your head because most probably you have had little actual contact with women. It's like earthlings fantasizing that aliens are little green men.

And when you meet one or two women and get disappointed because who you met doesn't match the image you had in your head, then you start believing that the specimen you met is a representative of all the women, which - of course is - false.

Talking about the WaW effect,

In another part of the study, adults’ attitudes were measured based on their reactions to categories associated with sexual relations. It revealed that the more sexual encounters a man had, the greater the likelihood of him sharing the positively biased perception of women.

Source

MorpheusGodOfDreams · 2016-09-09T12:38:00+00:00

Is it really all too surprising?

As soon as we can understand language, most of us are taught chivalry and mostly expected to uphold it as we grow up. But while we are taught to give women a helping hand, we are also taught we have to give them equality in things that really shouldn't be forced to be equal.

This reply didn't come out how I had hoped, so I will shoot right to it and take my down votes.

We are told women are great and awesome and will be awesome to us if we take care of them. All we do is grind ourselves up based on that knowledge to treat them like princesses when that isn't really what they want at all and they treat those that swoon over them like dirt. Thus we have sayings like, "Why are all these nice girls with douche bags?"

2016-09-09T14:33:44+00:00

Yet western women are absolutely begging for Islamic invaders to subjugate them

Not really. The vast majority of women find third world men absolutely repulsive. Women just have self-mutilating tendencies, that's all.

questioningwoman · 2016-09-09T05:14:33+00:00

I think that any man who assumes the worst of me because of my vagina has no empathy from me. The fact that I have to suffer from men jumping to conclusions and getting aggressive and mean doesn't give me any more empathy towards your cause. It makes me angry it makes me pissed, it makes me depressed and it just fuels the fire in me to fight and punish every single backlasher that goes against me.

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darkmoon09 · 2016-09-09T09:09:05+00:00

Why do you think women "lie"? I think most of them seriously believe they want "nice guys", they just have someone hot in mind. AF/BB is not even an intentional thing most of the time, it's something that happens because women eventually realize they have ran out of options. Women don't go out in their lives intending to screw men up.

MorpheusGodOfDreams · 2016-09-09T13:44:55+00:00

The surprise factor is the definite proof of the Women Are Wonderful Effect being ingrained in many western beta men. (Yet western women are absolutely begging for Islamic invaders to subjugate them).

The hell? White western women are begging islamic invaders to subjugate them? Why would they want that? You realize that if the islamic hordes ever get their feet inside the USA they are going to rape and kill white women, no? They're already raping white women in Europe, I bet there's tons of rapes going on everyday done by the muslims, the thing is that the govts probably hide away the rapes so the euros rise up and retreive europe for the europeans, not for every african, middle-eastern and asian that wants to get the fuck in.

rulenumber303 · 2016-09-09T13:45:38+00:00

What do you think about the large number of idealistic men in society that are genuinely surprised by female dating patterns?

I think if there are a large number of such men then clearly there is something defective about the Y chromosome when it comes to developing Theory of Mind.

LeaneGenova · 2016-09-09T14:11:48+00:00

Remove the race-baiting language, and I will reapprove the post. However, race-baiting is explicitly against the rules. Thanks.

MorpheusGodOfDreams · 2016-09-09T06:03:52+00:00

Pity. It's not surprising or angering. They don't affect my personal goals.

MorpheusGodOfDreams · 2016-09-09T06:58:41+00:00

It makes me sad to see men who still have illusions, but it doesn't make me happy to meet a man who's disillusioned.

Title	What do you think about the large number of idealistic men in society that are genuinely surprised by female dating patterns?
Author	MorpheusGodOfDreams
Upvotes	4
Comments	78
Date	September 9, 2016 5:12 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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