Some background: In Febuary last year I had been reading TRP for a while and realized it's time I start actually taking some action. I was obese, awkward, unconfident and unemployed. I had to fix that shit! So I decided to go into monk mode, I started to diet and lift and also went to a entrepreneur thing to meet people so I could learn to socialize more.

In November last year I moved to another country to study and experience new things, I am doing something with my life! I'm still slightly overweight but I've lost a lot and actually get comments about being good looking now. My social skills are much better though cold approaches are still problematic for me (especially since the native language is not English and their english is not that good). Now I know that's no excuse but I do feel like it makes my lack of skill worse.

Anyhow to the story: I met this girl at a club 1 week ago, She immidietly stood out to me because she was standing by herself at the bar looking like she didn't really belong. Now this night was kinda pissy for me because someone had stolen my wallet. Anyhow I talked to her for a short while about a lot of nonsense and had her laughing a lot before my friend eventually came with our Jackets and we had to leave, before I left I got her number and said I'll contact her.

We message a bit back and forth and eventually establish a "date" today. I met her outside the subway station and we went to a restaurant directly (I know bad idea but doing Leangains I have to make use of my window). We talked a lot and she was laughing a lot to things I said, asked some general questions such as if she liked to travel and if she could cook (this one is really important for me) / other hobbies. Since the restaurant was near a park I had never visited I said let's go there and so when we finished she actually payed for everything without question (This was new to me but I just said I'll buy a coffee later). We walked for a few hours in the park, she was laughing a lot and responding well to kino. I learned that is a yoga instructor and a piono teacher as well as just some general talking about everything. We held hands for quite some time (I know this means NOTHING). After a while I said let's get that coffee and so we eventually went to a coffee shop where I just got a coffee and she got some tea + a pastry and we talked for a while. At this point she had suddenly started to get a more closed body language and wasn't responding well to Kino and so eventually I got a chance to kinda gauge her interest when she said something very stupid (I don't remember what) so I just looked at her like she was stupid and started to get up to leave, at which point she grabbed onto me and pulled me back and said sorry sorry sorry.

A while after this she asked me first what I am looking for in women and I just said I am looking for someone short but attractive who can cook, is feminine and fun and she seemed happy with that answer. After that came what I could only think of as a shit test where she asked me how many women I have met and I asked her if she meant in this country or overall to which she said this country, and so I said how many (not a giant number but not just 1 or 2 which I am proud of considering I have been here 2 months only). At this point she didn't really say anything and we changed the subject, after about 30 more minutes she had to leave (I knew this allready so it wasn't a flake thing) and so we headed back towards the station. On the way there I held my arm around here to which she responded quite well but not as well as are time in the park.

At the station she had to use the bathroom and was kind of hurrying me to leave because of it and since her english is not the best it took some time before she understood what I meant when I said I also have to use the bathroom, so before we went in I turned to her and looked at her while talking and tried to go for the kiss to which she kinda shyed back and just said oh! no, in a laughing way so I just took that as dissinterest and so I said bye and we both went into the toilet and when I came out I didn't even think to wait for her I just left seeing how she seemed obviously uninterested.

What happened after was a lot of messages from her asking if I left, why I left etc and I can't for the life of me figure out what this is about. She was obviously not interested and we also said bye before we went into the toitlet so I'm not sure what's going on here and was hoping I could get some insight from you guys.

On a side note tomorrow I'm meeting my 4th girl in 1 month time and we are going to grab a coffee and if she's fun I'm going to bring her to play some billiard, that way if she's being a bitch or things don't work out I'll still have fun.

Forgive my wall of text.