Q4Women: Why do so many of you think that those big long lists of womens wants compared to mens wants are something to be proud of?

throwinout · 2016-02-18T18:02:17+00:00

Because it makes them seem more selective while also making them seem like prizes for meeting the minimum wants of men. Seems simple enough.

panickedperson · 2016-02-18T18:21:14+00:00

If a woman doesn't have high standards and sleeps with any man, then she is a slut.

If a woman has high standards and refuses men who don't fit, she is an "asshole"

So what exactly should women do, OP?

[deleted] · 2016-02-18T18:12:27+00:00

My opinion of Facebook isn't very high in general. Seems like most people use it to make their lives look far more interesting than they really are. If I didn't have children using it, I'd cancel my account right now.

So to your question? I think in many/most cases its a lot of bragging/boasting/trying to get attention more than anything with content worth paying attention to.

GridReXX · 2016-02-18T18:08:37+00:00

Because the woman who just wants good sex is a "slore with no standards!"

Men incentive women to have "standards."

sleeping_willow_ · 2016-02-18T18:29:12+00:00

It's nothing to be proud of, but nothing to be ashamed about either. Men also require more than just sex, food, and no nagging, even if they don't admit to it.

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SallyStitches · 2016-02-18T18:33:14+00:00

My wants are pretty simple:

food,sex,time with my husband, family time, and time alone. I think some of these posts you see on social media are tongue in cheek playing off of a stereo type. The ones that are posted as serious are probably not women I'd want to be friends with.

TheChemist158 · 2016-02-18T19:08:12+00:00

It would probably help if you actually posted an example. I can't say I've ever done anything like that (I don't even use social media). I do have standards, and I think that is a good thing. How many actual items are listed seems like an arbitrary side effect of how detailed you are. Honestly, that picture seems like something I'd find on /b/ in a woman hate thread.

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