Interested in hearing from both red and blue pills on this one.

I'm a 24 year old black guy who hasn't had sex in two years and I haven't kissed a girl since I was 19. I had one girlfriend who I dated for about a year. Since her I have not had sex without paying for it.

A bit about myself: mid twenties, overweight(5'10,190), junior at state school.

Happy to answers any questions you have and thanks in advance