My little rant and questions to women who disagree with Red Pill ideology, feel free to tell me how I'm wrong or off the mark I am

[deleted] · 2013-08-23T21:29:42+00:00

Have you ever made one guy wait to have sex with you, but gave it up to another guy much quicker? If yes, was the guy you gave it up to more "aggressive" about trying to have sex with you?

I denied sex to all previous boyfriends before my current one, though none of those relationships lasted over five months, and I didn't have sex with this one until we'd been together almost a year. He was absolutely not aggressive about it though; he didn't bring up the topic even once until I said I was ready in order to help me not feel pressured.

Have you ever kept a male friend around who you knew desired you but you didn't feel any attraction to?

I have remained friends with males who were interested in me because we had mutual friends and were in similar classes/clubs. I never indicated any romantic or sexual interest, though, and would even tell them to back off if they were getting too insistent.

Have you ever had sex with a different guy immediately or up to two weeks following a breakup?

Not even once. I don't understand why this is a problem, though, since it is my understanding that some Red Pill men keep "plates spinning" in case of this very occurrence. If I'm misunderstanding the concept, though, I'd appreciate being corrected.

Have you ever made sure you had a new boyfriend "secured" before you planned to split with a current boyfriend?

My previous answer can apply word for word here. Isn't this basically spinning plates?

Have you ever had a one night stand?

Not personally, but it's my understanding that people of both sexes enjoy them.

Have you ever had sex with a guy you didn't really like but he just turned you on?

No. However, if a man did this, then I believe the Red Pill reply would be "she wasn't relationship material, but she was good enough for a pump and dump." I don't understand why a woman having purely physical sex is "contributing to the problem." Can you clarify this one for me?

Were you more into casual sex in your younger years but then started seeking long-term relationships as you got older(ages 25+)?

I'm only twenty, but I've been in my current relationship for a little under a year and a half. This is another example of something I don't fully understand about the Red Pill. I've seen many of your men saying that they aren't ready to settle down, and that if they want kids and a family then they'll do it when they're older and done sleeping around. Why is a woman doing that bad?

When you have sex with a guy, have you denied doing nastier things with him (anal, cum of face, general degrading things) but have gone along and done those things with other guys in the past who didn't really care about your preferences?

Only one sexual partner.

luthiessong · 2013-08-23T21:04:53+00:00

Have you ever made one guy wait to have sex with you, but gave it up to another guy much quicker? If yes, was the guy you gave it up to more "aggressive" about trying to have sex with you?

No

Have you ever kept a male friend around who you knew desired you but you didn't feel any attraction to?

No

Have you ever had sex with a different guy immediately or up to two weeks following a breakup?

No

Have you ever made sure you had a new boyfriend "secured" before you planned to split with a current boyfriend?

No

Have you ever had a one night stand?

No

Have you ever had sex with a guy you didn't really like but he just turned you on?

No

Were you more into casual sex in your younger years but then started seeking long-term relationships as you got older(ages 25+)?

No

When you have sex with a guy, have you denied doing nastier things with him (anal, cum of face, general degrading things) but have gone along and done those things with other guys in the past who didn't really care about your preferences?

No

25 y/oF

It doesn't even matter if you specifically haven't done any of the things I've listed, as long as they're common practices and keep showing up in modern publications

Then why ask?

Define common, then prove these behaviors are common.

Thanks for reading.

[deleted] · 2013-08-24T01:38:32+00:00

I'm 22 years old and have been with the same dude since I was 15, so my answer to all of your questions is 'no' by default.

IRScientist · 2013-08-23T20:39:44+00:00

The point I'm trying to make here is that if you have done, or do some of the things listed above then it's very hard to discredit Red Pill ideas because, in a way, you're part of the problem.

I'm not understanding this part. Why do you say "the problem"?

bonebroth · 2013-08-24T02:56:49+00:00

I answered yes to the male friend question.

Questions for you: which Red Pill idea(s) do you think this validates? Do you think women are in the wrong for doing this, or do you consider it a personal problem for the male friend to deal with?

RobotPartsCorp · 2013-08-23T21:55:20+00:00

Have you ever made one guy wait to have sex with you, but gave it up to another guy much quicker? If yes, was the guy you gave it up to more "aggressive" about trying to have sex with you?

However long it takes for me to figure out if I want a relationship with this person or not. With some relationships that took 3 dates, with my current relationship for example, it took actually 4 dates. Sex isn't something to be "given up". I never felt I was "giving in" because I never would be with a dude that is so desperately persistent about sex like that that I feel like I would be "giving it up" or "giving in" so this question is a weird one. If I did not want to have sex with someone or felt there was no future, I would not go on any further dates.

Have you ever kept a male friend around who you knew desired you but you didn't feel any attraction to?

Yes because they were friends. I made sure it was clear what my intentions are but it was their choice if they wanted to remain friends or not. I am not going to kick a nice friend to the curb if he wants to be friends with me simply because he might want more than friendship. It's his choice though, all I ask for is honesty.

Have you ever had sex with a different guy immediately or up to two weeks following a breakup?

Maybe but I don't know, if I broke up with a guy or was broken up with, it usually took a little bit out of me and I would be too busy coping with the breakup and probably not ready to start dating again at that moment. Depending on the relationship, some recovery time was definitely shorter than others.

Have you ever made sure you had a new boyfriend "secured" before you planned to split with a current boyfriend?

No, that's silly. I enjoy my single time and my hobbies and never put having to be in a relationship as the most important thing in my life, it's a bonus but I believe that if you are miserable single than you are going to be miserable in a relationship.

Have you ever had a one night stand?

I've had sex with a few people who I was not in a relationship with and who I had no interest in beyond that one night but it was usually based on that encounter or even still it was after going on a few dates with them...I don't think that counts as a one-night-stand though, but I am not sure.

Have you ever had sex with a guy you didn't really like but he just turned you on?

No. I've never had sex with someone who I didn't like personally, at least at the time. Liking a person is most definitely a prerequisite to having sex with them. And if they are a person I do not like, I won't be turned on by them.

Were you more into casual sex in your younger years but then started seeking long-term relationships as you got older(ages 25+)?

The opposite for me, actually. I am a late-bloomer. As I got more confidence, more guys were going for me. I was in two long term relationships from ages 20-26. Really only between the ages 29-30 did I have a more casual dating life but I still valued monogamy. I am in a wonderful and serious relationship now.

When you have sex with a guy, have you denied doing nastier things with him (anal, cum of face, general degrading things) but have gone along and done those things with other guys in the past who didn't really care about your preferences?

I would never do anything with a guy if I was uncomfortable with him or the act itself. Generally, the more I trust a guy, the more open-minded I am to things, while at the same time, the more I want to experiment with him, I want to trust that he is open-minded too. I would never have sex with a guy who didn't care about my preferences, that doesn't sound like fun at all.

GerudoSheikah · 2013-08-29T00:36:20+00:00

Have you ever made one guy wait to have sex with you, but gave it up to another guy much quicker? If yes, was the guy you gave it up to more "aggressive" about trying to have sex with you?

I waited 11 months with my current boyfriend, however, he is the only one I've ever kissed, let alone have sex with. We've been together 5 years now.

Have you ever kept a male friend around who you knew desired you but you didn't feel any attraction to?

Yes I did, but I was completely honest with them about my feelings. I genuinely loved them as friends, and I told them that they would not get anything other than friendship from me. I've just always related to guys more (I'm an avid gamer and I dislike most "girly" things). I had always wished that the guys who did like me would just see me as just another one of the guys. I even tried to set them up on dates. Also, I was in high school then, just for reference.

Have you ever had sex with a different guy immediately or up to two weeks following a breakup?

No, I've only been with my current boyfriend. I imagine that if we were to break up, I wouldn't have sex already relations with anyone for a longggggg time, if ever. I view sex as something very emotional that I wouldn't do outside of an LTR.

Have you ever made sure you had a new boyfriend "secured" before you planned to split with a current boyfriend?

No.

Have you ever had a one night stand?

Nope and I never will. That's just not me.

Have you ever had sex with a guy you didn't really like but he just turned you on?

Nope. Sex is an emotional thing for me.

Were you more into casual sex in your younger years but then started seeking long-term relationships as you got older(ages 25+)?

I've never been into casual sex. I'm 19 and I only want sex if I'm I'm a relationship.

When you have sex with a guy, have you denied doing nastier things with him (anal, cum of face, general degrading things) but have gone along and done those things with other guys in the past who didn't really care about your preferences?

I've tried things with my boyfriend, but he's always been respectful of what I want and he always asks for my consent before trying something. I wouldn't have it any other way.

slashnovels · 2013-08-30T12:46:00+00:00

Have you ever made one guy wait to have sex with you, but gave it up to another guy much quicker? If yes, was the guy you gave it up to more "aggressive" about trying to have sex with you?

Yes No

Have you ever kept a male friend around who you knew desired you but you didn't feel any attraction to?

Yes. It's because I enjoyed their company as friends, or we were working on a project together, or because I found their job or study fascinating and wanted to hear about their work or research. Y'know, friendship.

Have you ever had sex with a different guy immediately or up to two weeks following a breakup?

No

Have you ever made sure you had a new boyfriend "secured" before you planned to split with a current boyfriend?

No

Were you more into casual sex in your younger years but then started seeking long-term relationships as you got older(ages 25+)?

The opposite

...

Just because someone has done something before, it doesn't mean that they're a sexual menu card that you can order from. People have the right to choose when and with whom they do something. See now I'm using horrible analogies like the RP does ;)

am_thro_way · 2013-09-02T13:46:50+00:00

Have you ever made one guy wait to have sex with you, but gave it up to another guy much quicker? If yes, was the guy you gave it up to more "aggressive" about trying to have sex with you?

When you have sex with a guy, have you denied doing nastier things with him (anal, cum of face, general degrading things) but have gone along and done those things with other guys in the past who didn't really care about your preferences?

Ehh, yeah, I've had sex with a guy who I wasn't really attracted to, including doing some "degrading" things that I didn't enjoy, because he was aggressive and wouldn't take no for an answer and I was spineless and socially awkward (ie. didn't know how to reject someone clearly). I don't really see how "pushy, aggressive people sometimes pressure spineless people into doing stuff" is some kind of super secret Red Pill concept, though.

SpermJackalope · 2013-08-23T22:00:36+00:00

Have you ever made one guy wait to have sex with you, but gave it up to another guy much quicker?

Yes.

If yes, was the guy you gave it up to more "aggressive" about trying to have sex with you?

No.

Have you ever kept a male friend around who you knew desired you but you didn't feel any attraction to?

Yes. He still wanted to be my friend.

Have you ever had sex with a different guy immediately or up to two weeks following a breakup?

Yes.

Have you ever made sure you had a new boyfriend "secured" before you planned to split with a current boyfriend?

No.

Have you ever had a one night stand?

Yes.

Have you ever had sex with a guy you didn't really like but he just turned you on?

No. I have had sex with a few folks I didn't really know well enough to like to dislike, I just thought they were hot.

Were you more into casual sex in your younger years but then started seeking long-term relationships as you got older(ages 25+)?

I'm still in the younger years.

When you have sex with a guy, have you denied doing nastier things with him (anal, cum of face, general degrading things) but have gone along and done those things with other guys in the past who didn't really care about your preferences?

No.

Title	My little rant and questions to women who disagree with Red Pill ideology, feel free to tell me how I'm wrong or off the mark I am
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Date	August 23, 2013 8:36 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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