In years past, I could easily get a girl's number and get her on the phone in about 20 minutes, because I knew once they saw my personality, they'd be down. And they were. But now that I've recently downloaded again after months, after getting numbers, it's damn near impossible to get them talking. They'll say any variation of "I'm busy at the moment but I'll get back to you on that soon", or "I'll let you know".

Or make some excuse about not being a talker, or thinking calls are weird. And once they basically deny your compliance gig, it kinda ruins the interaction in my opinion. Getting told no over text I think ruins their attraction. So should I try to change topics to plans or just stay on text altogether and fuck the phone call. I feel like I'm destroying leads trying to make phone calls happen.