I hit my looksmax but all my dating attempts fail.

BuzzLightGear321 · 2019-10-09T21:27:52+00:00

Ah the looksmaxed Chad that still fails to get laid. Very common here in AskTRP.

It's usually accompanied by a self deprecating username like Troglodyte. Followed by zero details on physical traits that he can influence like Squat/Deadlift 1RM numbers, bodyfat %, whether he has a 6 pack or even good teeth/haircut. Add in complete lack of proof in posting pictures/video with face hidden, or even examples of when he failed at a pick up. Sprinkled with some "Fuck it I give up" attitude at the very end after the reader has read the post.

I'm sure that's not you tho, right? You're definitely Ultra-Chad, the girls just can't see it.

Real Talk: You're talked down to because you do this https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/3509/don_t_talk_to_me_like_a_bitch

CainPrice · 2019-10-09T21:12:17+00:00

If you have legit full-blown aspergers, as in people can tell there is something wrong with you just by interacting with you for 10 seconds and everybody thinks you're a weirdo, then yes, you are screwed. You need professional help. Therapy and coping skills to hide the fact that you're a weirdo.

If you have high-functioning aspergers and you're pretty much normal, just maybe with some weird tendencies, you'll do fine if you're hot. Just keep meeting women and practicing your game and eventually you'll get better at it and not say as much stupid shit.

wtfoshizzle · 2019-10-09T20:57:40+00:00

Maybe chew gum or discreetly squeeze a stress ball in your pocket so that you stfu and don't leak out that you are a sperg. if you are 6'3 and have good features you should have it pretty easy. Main thing is develop a sense of humor. if you are attractive and you can make her laugh she will ignore other quirks as she will be too distracted by physical attraction and good jokes. That's more advice for hookups, regarding LTR you'd still want to develop a sense of humor though.

Maybe lift more too? It could be possible that you aren't as attractive as you think.

PickUpScientist · 2019-10-09T20:57:58+00:00

lets see a pic. no homo.

Hungboy6969420 · 2019-10-09T22:56:26+00:00

Looks only matter so much. My roommate is in WAY better shape than me but I score with more and higher quality women then him. Wanna know why ? His mindset is pure shit. He gives women way too much attention and validation. Total limp dick.

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-10-10T06:50:33+00:00

Just find a girl with Asperger's to fuck or go to a furry convention or something.

Dudes like you can land those weird comicon chicks but usually the chick runs the relationship, she's poly and gets banged by other larpers while wearing a corset or some goofy game of thrones bullshit. But occasionally there's a hottie there by Sherwood Fair standards.

You need to focus on awkward chicks. I banged a woman once who looked pretty good but God was she fucking weird. I got the hell out of there. You could stick around.

yyyyzryrd · 2019-10-09T21:48:53+00:00

Your name makes me assume you're overall very negative in perception of a worldview. Charisma is a skill, most people are good enough to pass by; some are impotent and others exceed at it. It makes life easier in every regard.

What does this actually mean? It gets better. You'll get better. You will do great in the future if you put in the unlucky hours right now. Do not offput failing attempts, as that is the only true way to learn and get better. Looks can only distract so much from someones capability or skill, and charisma is easy enough to attain.

TheGillos · 2019-10-10T01:05:46+00:00

You're 16, according to what you've said on this thread.

Don't worry about it. Get your fitness and diet good, keep good habits. Study. Enjoy extra curricular activities. Focus on finding what you want to do after HS.

JUST RELAX. If you just relax, make jokes, make friends, have some adventures, opportunities will present themselves.

I would bet you come off as desperate or stressed out in your interactions.

FieldLine · 2019-10-10T02:29:11+00:00

There is a lesson to be learned here.

Rodent9 · 2019-10-10T01:47:57+00:00

You probably ugly, stfu

YouWannaPutMoneyOnIt · 2019-10-10T16:05:24+00:00

Stop caring so much, that’s your only problem lol

If she suckin ya dick, cool If she not, cool If she twerk on ya, cool If not, cool She spending time with ya? Cool If not? Cool

Just live more by the moment my dude.

Anything that you see as a negative, can be seen as a positive by somebody else.

Title	I hit my looksmax but all my dating attempts fail.
Author	Trooglodyte
Upvotes	3
Comments	29
Date	October 9, 2019 8:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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