So I've got a pretty solid case of one-itis. We get on well, slept together on the 2nd date after a long dinner of talking/wine and then realizing her house was empty we took advantage of the situation (we both live at our respective parents house). Taking things slow now, seeing each other once a week for 'cute' dates.

She's cute, but not hot, probably a 6 SMV wise, if she gymed she'd be an 8. Problem is she isn't the most exciting person in the world. I appreciate her and I'm only the 2nd guy she's slept with, shes fairly conservative and her last lay was over 2 years ago judging by her condoms in her nightstand and knowledge of her previous relationship. She isn't generally the type of girl most RPers would go for because of it, shes frigid and really quiet. Hover parents and what-not have made her very introverted.

I've always been a 'nice guy', I want to get past this chick and move on but I don't want to seem like an asshole for ditching her out of nowhere, we get on well and we have good chemistry but frankly she has zero hobbies, zero physical activities and lacks that spark that makes me want to pay attention. The biggest thing we have in common is music taste, that's carrying our interactions at the moment.

I started lifting 7 months ago to lose weight/build muscle, eat well, have a good foothold in my career and gaining extra quals as I climb.

How do I get out of that head-space? Shes really into me, as I said, I'm her first lay in two years. All I can think of is how crushed she would be if I ended it now.

How do I change those thoughts, I want to not care but I can't help it.