Do you judge women by what friends they have?

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October 13, 2019
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I do that a lot with guys. If they hang around losers, I lose respect for them.

Does it work the same with women being way more social than us?


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Title Do you judge women by what friends they have?
Author daddydickie
Upvotes 74
Comments 26
Date 13 October 2019 03:18 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/290103
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[–]Vermillion_Rx87 points88 points  (4 children) | Copy

Hell yes, if they have disrespectful, massive gossip, bitch friends I know what I'm getting into. If their friends are all whores, they're usually whores themselves beyond your typical AWALT promiscuity.

If she has prude friends, she's probably a prude too

[–]daddydickie[S] 4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

What about loser male friends?

[–]Vermillion_Rx36 points37 points  (2 children) | Copy

That's tricky, women choose to exercise little to no agency in controlling their own lives independently, and reflect their friends very well.

Men are not as simple.

On average, yeah, if their friends are losers it suggests cooler people don't want to hang out with them. But not always. Some guy might have a loser friend that he's known since they were 3 years old. Some guys hang out for common bonds and interests.

It's usually, but not always the case that a guy is friends with a loser because he himself is a loser

[–]daddydickie[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

No I mean, women with loser guy friends.

[–]Vermillion_Rx10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Ah, gotcha. you might want to specify that in your OP.

Not necessarily. Every woman who's at least more attractive than masturbation has orbiter losers that she gains benefit from leeching off of for free.

Now, if a woman who is quite valuable or attractive seems to only have loser guy friends that she is with and doesn't even have Chad friends, than that's saying a lot. If sexy cheerleader Stacy can't even make friends with all the football Chad's, you can safely assume something is not right with her

[–]Filmguy00013 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think it should be examined at a case by case basis. In general, I would say that a women's social circle does represent what she is all about. Like someone else said, if her friends are mostly whores, then she is likely a whore herself.

Women (and arguably most men) tend to socialize in the world that they are most accustomed to or relate to the most. So if you are ever talking to a girl and don't feel right about her overall crowd of friends, I would take that feeling seriously and consider that she may not be for you.

Women will always have a friend or maybe a couple friends that are crappy or annoying which isn't that big of deal usually. But if you see that she likes a particular crowd that you don't jive with, then like I said, its something to consider.

[–]ThrowawayYAYAY200210 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

There's no way that you can't.

"You're the average of the five people..."

Quotes like that exist for a reason.

[–]Fukboi13998 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

You are a byproduct of the people you mix with, regardless of gender. That's what I personally believe in

[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do you judge women by what friends they have?

Yes, and it's brutally effective

[–]ThatsReallyGr85 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

A lot of women seem to like keeping the losers handy for some reason. You just won't know it. I can't imagine why.

[–]Hungboy69694200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Easy ego boost

[–]CHANCHAN184 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I would say 90% of the time the people you surround yourself with are generally the same. There is always one of two people in a group that might be an exception. So I try not to judge a book by its cover until I feel like I fully know them but you can definitely get a vibe from there friends based on there morals, lifestyles, values etc.

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K183 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Nope.

I judge a woman by how 'fuck yes or no' she is.

By how willing she is to pass compliance tests.

By how much she follows my frame.

You fucking her friends? Whose frame you playing in?

[–]Hungboy69694202 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If it's LTR, I can understand the friends part a bit. If she's anything less idc

[–]MR_SKINNYPENIS692 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

Somewhat, though I judge her more based on her reaction to my opinions of her friends.

[–]Filmguy0000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Interesting point.

[–]daddydickie[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

How do you know she's telling you the truth?

I never take women seriously.

[–]MR_SKINNYPENIS690 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

It's pretty hard for a woman to hide their honest reaction when you insult their friends lol

[–]Exo23031 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes, because the environment you live in determines how you develop and act.

[–]1redhawkes0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"You're the company you keep"

[–]smhfamswag0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes, and you should. Women are followers, if all there friends are thots, what do you think your girl is ?

[–]SalporinRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I judge everyone based on what friends they have.

[–]LastRedshirt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Do women really have friends?

[–]ibetrynaimprove0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes

[–]whosaccisthis940 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Birds of a feather flock together.

[–]hedden930 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah I had an ex (when I was fully blue pill) who used to talk about a couple of her friends that would cheat on their boyfriends when they would all go out. She seemed really unfazed by it like it was no big deal at all. Then guess what she ended up doing to me.



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