GF is driving me crazy with her sexual past

MindlessCalendar · 2019-10-29T14:28:39+00:00

So many red pill basics in such a short post. Have you read the sidebar? If not, start with that. If you would've properly read the handbook and the sidebar you would have already had your answers.

I'm dating a wonderful girl since 3 months, we are together and exclusive since one month.

Mistake number one. Never commit to a girl after only 2 months. You haven't vetted her enough to know if she is worth the commitment. You gave up commitment way too fast.

She told me the guy was a bastard, that she didn't like the sex at all, and that she never contacted him again after that.

Of course, they all say that and it's bullshit. Why did she have sex with him and chilled with him after that if he's such an asshole? Why did she want to have sex with him A SECOND TIME if he was such an asshole and terrible in bed? Because she doesn't actually dislike him and the sex wasn't bad. The only reason is because he wasn't interested. She likes him dude. Assholes get laid. Watch out for this co-worker in the future. She will bang him again if she gets the chance.

I would be very careful going forward this girl.

RiffRaffAmerican · 2019-10-29T18:04:01+00:00

How low value, classless, and uninteresting do you have to be for a ONS to be a topic of conversation on a first date, if ever? What the fuck is that.

Should have exited stage left after her volunteering that info, months ago.

Her past isn't going to change and you don't have to accept it. If it's bothering you, cut her loose. You can break up with anyone for any reason. Though this girl never should have been more than a plate to begin with.

br0j1tsu · 2019-10-29T14:50:15+00:00

Lift & sidebar, read your post 6 months later.

thrwy75479 · 2019-10-29T19:57:58+00:00

She's into that other dude. I also have a feeling that she has some history with that guy, and she's with you only so that she doesn't feel lonely, particularly at this time of the year.

What kind of retard brings up a ONS that she had on a first date? Worse, you're a fool for continuing to see her beyond that date, and an absolute idiot to commit.

I would be very careful going forward this girl.

If she's putting out, and you're getting the sex you want from her, then stay, otherwise, end it now rather than drag it out, and waste time. Even with the sex, the whole situation is so fucking stupid, I don't know how you can stay with this girl.

At this time of the year, it's much easier to bang other girls because emotions are high, and they don't want to be alone.

2019-10-29T15:23:43+00:00

Delete block ghost.

After 2-3 weeks of no contact, shit in a basic brown bag (the kind you may have eaten lunch out of as a kid), put the bag on her porch, light the top of the bag on fire, ring the doorbell (or knock) and run to a pre-set hiding/viewing location. If all went as planned the victim will see the flaming bag and be all like "ahh fire!" followed by a quick stomping of the bag.

Foolishoe · 2019-10-29T17:25:28+00:00

Probably selfish. Got head didn't go down, came and was done, didn't get her off. Rushed things, went in before she was wet, jammed a finger in her ass, slapped her ass too hard or her tits or pinched her nipples too hard too soon. Choked her too hard, with his hands or his cock.

Might have spit in her face, called her humiliating names of all sorts. The variety of good/bad things he could have done is pretty large.

If you don't talk to a woman about it before banging, you are just expecting things to go your way instead of learning the woman and giving her what she wants. Getting laid however is always going to be an interest, and seeing if he is also interested shows her a bit about her value, even if she's not too interested in the guy, it probably worked better than her toys in the closet naughty box.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-10-29T17:30:59+00:00

Not a big deal that she did that ONS. It was before you were exclusive/together. What is more telling is that she lied about it. Also, you went exclusive WAY too fast. Also, can tell you have oneitis and are losing frame. This likely wont end well for you.

BeeBopJoe · 2019-10-29T21:07:18+00:00

Dude those are some severe red flags, no offense but are you autistic or something?

Domebeers · 2019-10-29T23:15:46+00:00

New here? Read the sidebar.

je2907 · 2019-10-29T15:03:47+00:00

Why the fuck do you care and try to analyze what a dumb bitch says about her sex life? It's done, she did it and to make herself better she called him a bastard. That's it. Get over this or just next the bitch. You have oneitis because you think about irrelevant stuff all the time

juliusstreicher · 2019-10-30T02:52:31+00:00

She fucked Lumberg!

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-10-29T18:36:23+00:00

She said that she won't get into details with me, because it is too bad things.

He hit the ass.

Have you?

Don't be sad if she won't. Most women won't let me hit the ass either-- but it's because my dick is too big. Oh well. Chad problems.

Cordiax · 2019-10-29T14:58:16+00:00

I don't know she cried when she talked about him ... Really don't know what to think about it.

Title	GF is driving me crazy with her sexual past
Author	Cordiax
Upvotes	5
Comments	38
Date	October 29, 2019 2:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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