Feeling submissive?

Snowboard18 · 2019-11-13T02:41:57+00:00

Develope a “I am the shit” mentality. Always put yourself first and think highly of yourself.

se_anz · 2019-11-13T02:29:28+00:00

It's just has to do with mindset and self confidence. I think the best answer is to try to improve your self in every aspect, and especially the parts of your life you feel least confident in. This will improve your self imagine and make you more dominant in everyday life.

2019-11-13T04:34:42+00:00

My sociopathic mother convinced me my father was weak. He was not. Your results may vary.

VaN__Darkholme · 2019-11-13T11:34:14+00:00

Get dominated and pegged by a tranny

FieldLine · 2019-11-13T04:53:11+00:00

Do you watch a lot of porn?

Standgrounding · 2019-11-13T14:40:12+00:00

Every single morning, say this: "I'm a champion and today I'mma kick ass like a champion. I'll get my shit done as well as possible. I will reap the rewards, like a champion"

The difference between this and LARPing on forums is that you have to LARP in your mind. Get it? LARP inside your head. And then, do stuff. Feeling lazy? Override it, it is just a feeling. Feeling inconfident? Up your competence and style, look more put together. The confidence comes right after, like a piece of puzzle. Lacking discipline? Find a way to boost your energy. Sleep well, drink lemon juice, multivitamins, take care of your diet.

And follow your passions no matter what others think.

Build a fucking hexagonite frame and don't be afraid to get into a fight over small shit. It doesn't quite matter what it is about as long as your opinion does not change and you successfully persuade others.

What will help you is that no matter what you do there are gonna be haters. And there will be a conflict of interest. There will be shit tests. Be the immovable boulder in the storm.

Also, value your time. You might be more dominant in one setting and more submissive in another. Find out why. And leave the situations that don't benefit you.

GayLubeOil · 2019-11-13T05:56:55+00:00

This probably has something to do with it

Ronaldo-CR7- · 2019-11-13T04:26:08+00:00

Your testosterone is really good!

ErectileDistention · 2019-11-13T10:00:27+00:00

You seem to think that if you're hormones are good then you won't feel submissive and stop acting submissive. It's the other way around. You need to learn to lead, starting with yourself. When you are confident in your ability to make decisions and take action, and get annoyed by indecision and weakness you will start to be dominant around those who won't. But if you always second guess your decisions, you will instead look to mommy for leadership.

wiz-ymcmb · 2019-11-13T17:05:13+00:00

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TheRedPillKing · 2019-11-13T12:24:28+00:00

Lift some heavy weights.

Sweetdreams18 · 2019-11-13T16:16:31+00:00

maybe it’s just your nature to watch other men have sex with your wife while you masturbate in a corner

Jokes aside realize you are suffering from the elephant on the rope mentality, you were raised into believing you had to be a nice little unoffensive kid and go after compliments from your aunts

Look yourself at the mirror and notice that that part of you with such a big voice is actually very small compared to what has growns around it, it‘s time to snap the rope and archive that part of you that makes you surrender to every challenging situation

Rad1Red · 2019-12-07T18:51:28+00:00

You mean sexually submissive? What's wrong with that, mate?

You can develop your confidence, knowledge, courage, and grow happier with your life while still being true to your nature. You can be a - very manly - knight to a wise queen. Have you seen The Last Kingdom? Kind of like that Uhtred guy.

You're 21, mate. You don't want to struggle against your deeper nature for years, like a fish on dry land, and wake up in your 40s still submissive and with 100 more hangups and detoxing to do. I've seen a lot of people like that. Because what these folks won't tell you is that no, it doesn't go away.

I suggest talking to a therapist and tackling your issues with a focus on yourself and your life, instead of abiding by generic (and useless) advice from people who don't know you.

Title	Feeling submissive?
Author	wiz-ymcmb
Upvotes	14
Comments	21
Date	November 13, 2019 2:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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