Red Pill support for those going through a divorce

NPIF · 2015-02-26T01:28:27+00:00

If you feel strongly enough that you can help another man by showing him this sub, you can always PM it to him. It's generally not advisable to discuss TRP in real life - as the connotations of being associated with RedPill aren't exactly positive in the mainstream - but there's no real harm in a private message on reddit.

yummyluckycharms · 2015-02-26T05:06:30+00:00

I think a lot of men find the manosphere - including red pill - post divorce - or at least until a fair chunk of the separation occurs. Thats how it happened to me and others that I know as well.

I have conflicted feelings as to whether or not a sub is wise. On the one hand, as a guy - you're thrown to the wolves. Your friends will scatter, relatives will ignore you, and there are zero support groups out there for you. So there is a need

On the other hand, that time where its you vs the world is invaluable to a man. Yes, some men will sink and blow their brains out, but for those that dont, they will come out forged by the fire twice as strong. They see the world as it is, that the cards are stacked against you, and that one needs to become more focused on improving themselves to overcome those challenges. I really doubt if beta me from before the divorce wouldve been able to absorb the red pill lessons without that tempering.

All_fixed_again · 2015-02-26T06:59:22+00:00

Went through a similar thing with my now whore of an ex wife 3 years back. For those that are going through this and trying to understand why your princess/angel ex wives suddenly chose random dick sucking over their kids and loving Beta husbands, I read "Womans Infidelity" by Michelle Langley. Explains exactly what husbands need to do when they catch their wives cheating, a TRP aproved...man the fuck up, grow some balls, hold frame and hard next her.

Highly recommend this book be added to the recommended reading list, made me Alpha the fuck up after I turned the last page. So much so that ex wife wanted me back. At that point though, had realised I could do way better than her...felt good giving her a cold, calm and collected "fuck you" when she tried it on with me.

Edit: The key sentence in the book that shook me awake was, some of the cheating wives interviewed for the book described their husbands as "pathetic", the harder the husband tried to save the marriage by being "nice" and pandering to her every whim, the more disgusted she was by him. An important TRP truth, going full beta only makes her hate you more. The only thing worth rescuing is your self respect so stop trying and walk away.

Cryocasm · 2015-02-26T00:50:00+00:00

It's sickening to see someone allowing this to happen to himself.

Well that's their fault then and you can't help them.

Watch and laugh, do it better yourself and don't fuck up.

BlaiseDB · 2015-02-26T13:13:51+00:00

I was a divorce attorney for 4 years and I had to give it up. I only stumbled on TRP recently but I have been semi-unplugged for years (which is why I got so much shit from profs and other students at the left coast law school I attended).

Now I am 48, I live in China and have a 26 year old girlfriend. Fuck the anglosphere/eurosphere feminist matrix.

I'm not allowed to give legal advice but practical advice is another thing. Feel free to PM me.

chuck_manson · 2015-02-26T05:30:55+00:00

The best thing that can happen during separation is that she moves in with the guy (co-habitation). The laws probably differ by state but in Illinois this means that you can walk away with half of all assets and no alimony/maintenance regardless of the income disparity. I can't talk to the child support aspect.

They will leave when you've given up or exhibit too many beta traits. It's likely that she will branch swing like the situation you mentioned. Best case scenario is they have no children together and she shacks up with him. The husband might be smart to teeter-totter for awhile. Boyfriend might be a white-knight who'll take her in (assuming he can pay the bills) and it'll be over.

TekkomanKingz · 2015-02-26T12:19:18+00:00

Oddly enough I feel the best way to preserve marriage is by having the full capability to leave it in a smooth transition (along with being the best option for your Woman).

Theoretically speaking my Wife could divorce me after she becomes eligible for permanent residency through Green card in 5 years. However, there is nothing she can gain from doing this. Reason being is aside from the prenup and the fact I didn't have to file the "Affadavit of Support" (which puts you on the hook if she uses federal benefits) because of her prior work experience here she has already paid into the system enough to qualify for benefits of her own accord - Her life is 2x as great with me here than with me gone. Really that simple. And she won't be able to find a guy who can do more than that. Conversely on the flip side it's highly unlikely I will find a Woman better than her in the U.S. (or Japan, where she's from for that matter).

There is a unique thing about a foreign Woman who comes here to work, she is of a different breed than either a domestic Woman or a Woman from her home country who couldn't hack it here. If you can find one of these Women they usually have the most to offer (best of both worlds) but make sure they aren't buying into "America" or their home country fully, but they have their own mind and opinion and think for themselves.

Good luck gents, it is not easy but picking the right Woman sometimes feels like truly 65% of the Battle.

tatertotmonkey · 2015-02-26T20:24:06+00:00

Going through something similar. Hit me up if you get overwhelmed.

Title	Red Pill support for those going through a divorce
Author	Friggen_throwaway
Upvotes	22
Comments	27
Date	February 26, 2015 12:43 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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