Advice on a potential LTR?

badabing654 · 2019-11-19T16:50:41+00:00

No one: Asktrp: she cooks tho bro

KrissVectorEOC · 2019-11-19T16:22:44+00:00

You don't 'convince' a girl to do what you want and you sure as hell don't talk about it. Guide her to what you want her to do more and if she respects you enough in the sense that you're someone she wants to please, she will do whatever it is to make you happy.

bigmaddenguy · 2019-11-19T17:21:33+00:00

Just stick your dick in her mouth or guide her head to your dick. Don't ask. Repeat until she's into it. She'll warm up. Assuming she's attracted to you, she may just not have sucked a lot of dick in the past, and that can feel weird to get into. If she questions it outside of the bedroom, just be direct: "I want my dick sucked, and I want you to suck it. I am a guy--that's what we do." Don't back down--hold frame. She should want to please you.

If you do this for a while and don't seem to be getting anywhere, she's probably just not as into you as you think. At that point you can decide to find a girl who is. Sucking dick shouldn't be a big deal to her, unless she's inexperienced. And the only way to get through inexperience is to give her experience.

Psychological_Radish · 2019-11-19T18:00:29+00:00

There are two parts of your mind on display here. The rational side lays out logical reasons why she's a good prospect...the cooking, her attractiveness, the chill personality.

On the other hand, your instinctual side - the "gut" - knows something is amiss, and that something is her lack of enthusiasm in the bedroom. It doesn't feel right because it is, in fact, not right. A girl who's really into you will beg to choke on your cock and WANT to do all sorts of crazy shit. Even if she isn't experienced, she will make an effort to please to the best of her ability...even if that entails offering her ass on the first date with zero anal experience (I have personally had that happen).

I would keep her as a plate. Why you would LTR a girl who can't satisfy in the bedroom, I have no idea.

kclanton80 · 2019-11-19T18:49:11+00:00

You need to lead! Be more aggressive during sex. Talk dirty to her and tell her to suck your dick better. Instruct her, shove it for her throat. Grab her hair. Treaqt her like a sex toy.

Do this gradually of course. Don't go 0 to 100 but step it up more and more each time. Sometimes they don't want to appear to be be slutty. Demand she be slutty for you and she might open up.

Heck she will be probably start to like it. Honestly though...I wonder how sttong the physical attraction is. She doesn't seem into it

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-11-19T19:42:33+00:00

Nope, dont LTR her. I made the mistake of doing that with a chick who was a virgin and "wasnt into it". My RP mentor told me "You do you, but I personally couldnt have a chick be my girlfriend who doesnt suck my dick." I got subpar head maybe 10 times through the 9 months or whatever it was. It won't get better. Find a chick who enjoys giving head.

hoopingblob · 2019-11-19T16:13:17+00:00

Just tell her to suck your dick. If she doesn't look for someone else to suck your dick

Title	Advice on a potential LTR?
Author	IfoundAnneFrank
Upvotes	2
Comments	31
Date	November 19, 2019 3:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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