Alright so met this chick in my class with a nice ass. Got her number and made a time to study with her. I did a little bit of escalation but I couldn't tell whether she was engaged she didn't mind me touching her or anything but it seemed like the more I went in the less eye contact she gave.
Anyway after that I pretty much stopped showing up to class and she did too. But she'd text me and ask me if i was in class and tell her what they'd discuss. I asked her out again and she said responded two days later saying she might be able to do Tuesday(or whatever day it was). She would usually text me within an hr or 2.
After that I started delaying my responses and she'd ask me what we talked about in class I'd say I'll let you know and never get back to her. One day she texted me asking if I was in class and I didn't respond and she was standing in front of the door waiting to ask me in person what we discussed. I told her and acted accordingly and then she sped off to her midterm. I feel like if she did this she might have been interested but I still remained cold to her just something I do naturally man idk gotta work on it.
So one day I show up to class and see one of my buddies and we chop it up about the class and how the teacher never shows up on time and then on the corner of my eye I see the girl right behind him sitting down on the floor on her computer. When my friend leaves I just ignored her and didn't say anything to her and then I winded up leaving and going home after about 10 minutes.
I just feel like me ignoring her in person kinda sealed the deal and feel like I coulda got with her had I not gotten so butthurt that she took so long to respond. I mean the girl didn't even reject me I just got tight because she took long to respond and assumed she would flake like other chicks before. Starting to think girls do this shit just to test you and see how you react. Obviously her interest isnt sky high but I just know in my gut had I just acted like nothing was wrong I woulda got with her in some time.
Now I got a little bit of oneitis because I feel like I gave up too easily and acted like a cold prick lol. I mean she coulda said hi but I mean why would she when I was essentially ignoring her.
How would you guys proceed? What would you guys have done differently?
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