Tinder worth it?

amwfhunter · 2019-12-01T07:46:28+00:00

If u like fucking fat chicks and single moms

ceilingsky95 · 2019-12-01T07:26:24+00:00

Cold approach is best. Tinder is literally a game of chance. You could get 100 matches and meet 0 in person.. for what? Time wasted.

KirthWGersen · 2019-12-01T11:22:51+00:00

A lot of it is a matter of timing. In my experience, if you have matches from days or weeks ago, they are very unlikely to respond.

This is hardly surprising, as they have probably started seeing other guys in the meantime or are simply busy/not on the app.

Strike while the iron is hot. Where I live the best times to match are Thursday night and Sunday night.

Thursday night because they want to set something up for the weekend.

Sunday is better, because you can arrange a brief meet for Monday/Tuesday, then arrange a date for a day later in the week if you like her.

Text her as soon as you match. If she is sitting on the sofa alone in the evening, she will be ready to chat.

Keep it to just a few lighthearted exchanges and say something like: this is something we can talk about better in person. How about a coffee/beer on Monday?

If a girl is interested, she will say yes right away and you can wrap it up and meet her.

If they say they need to get to know you better before you meet, it is game over. They are just looking for validation and have no intention of meeting you ever, they are just wasting your time. Just delete and move on.

Your aim should be to set up as many meets as you want in as short a time as possible. The real stuff comes when you meet. Before that they are just meaningless pixels on a screen.

LilLoserFreny · 2019-12-01T11:40:09+00:00

You’re better off talking and gaming hoes in real life. That is of course unless your top tier in looks, have good tinder game or want to play the numbers game to the max. In my opinion it’s not worth all the effort when you could get a better return on your investment in real life.

setsuna0 · 2019-12-01T12:44:26+00:00

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Protocol_Apollo · 2019-12-01T14:27:11+00:00

Yes it is, tinder is very low investment in finding pussy. Even if it’s 1 extra lay per year. A lay is a lay.

Read the tinder guides though, a simple hi/hey/what’s up as an opener will get you NOTHING since she will have tons of matches.

astonboi01 · 2019-12-01T09:37:24+00:00

There is. Slot of girls in there for validation but don’t be an incel and just play the game

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-12-01T11:34:05+00:00

If that’s how it’s going for you then probably not

Jabbermouth · 2019-12-01T18:18:47+00:00

Tinder is 90% looks. For the vast majority of men, Tinder is a waste of time. With that said, you can add a few lays a year from Tinder depending on how attractive you are and how much you drop your standards.

ElijahBurningWoods · 2019-12-01T08:29:14+00:00

And even if you get their number, the chances of meeting are low because they don't really know you. This can be easier if you have a strong tinder/instagram account (enough posts on that on here). But yeah, day/night game should be easier because you already had the first physical interaction.

Title	Tinder worth it?
Author	setsuna0
Upvotes	2
Comments	23
Date	December 1, 2019 7:01 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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