Ive been with a new group of friends recently and this girl that i didnt knew prior seemed interested in me this whole time. The times we hung out in the group were fun and i kept teasing her and she was being touchy the whole time and teased me back. Never isolated her though but today she texted me at 5pm that she wants to hang out one on one asap. I said fine, but it’ll be 9pm because im having some quality time with my little cousins. She agreed but kept texting me every hour that i should hurry up. I told her to chill and that i clearly stated 9pm but i figured she was just joking since we teased each other alot before.

Anyway, around 8:15pm i order my taxi and when im in the taxi i tell her im on my way. She suddenly texts “im not going anymore” after i sent a picture of me in the taxi (not a selfie, just a picture of the car on the road). Again, shes probably joking so i text: “excuse me? See you there at 9”. She left it unread and i didnt think much of it. I chatted with the driver and arrived a little before 9 and she text me “let me know when you get there”. I texted her that i just arrived and am heading for the rooftop (its a rooftop bar/restaurant).

Still unread. Its now almost 10pm and im on my third drink not expecting her to come anymore but i just want some thoughts from you guys since this is the first time this had ever happened to me. Im a fairly attractive and wealthy dude who has no problem getting a girl to fuck but i guess my ego is just annoyed and confused by this. Should i text her where she is at? I feel like its a wrong move. Ive been sitting at the bar which i frequent bantering around with the bartender and another group of guys at the table next to me here so im not sitting pathetically alone with my third drink. Just want some thoughts on:

  1. What the fuck is wrong with this woman? We both know we have mutual friends and will still be seeing each other whether we like it or not.

  2. Do i text or not?