Help with dating stuff

rocknrollchuck · 2018-05-03T20:53:09+00:00

Ok, so I wasn’t going to answer this, since I’m married and have no use for dating sites. But I decided to take a look at your post history to see if there was anything I could say that might be helpful. What I found was……..surprising, to say the least:

Im thinking of killig myself... im so alone

Im gonna kill myself so stop wasting ur effort

Can u f…..g stop acting like u care??? Go f..k someone else

Okay ill kill myself. Thanks

Im sorry. I should probably kill myself.

Post title: “I would rather be empty than full of s..t”

But im not valuable enough to be loved. I have nothing and that means no one would want me bc my smv is 0

If i died and my sisters take care of him he wouldnt even remember me at all. So no no one will miss me.

When i was highschool there were major 3 things i pray to God everyday for 4 years. It was 1) Iphone,i have no parents that have a good paying job and im only a scholar and my aunt is the one who mostly paid for other expenses. 2) graduate in highschool with good enough grade 3)and enter a good college school. GOD answer all those prayer dispite of my roller coaster faith. I think knowing God is most important thing in prayer.

I like how the c..m is way way way more in hentai than in porn but regardless i like fapping so anything is fun :o

I agree. Love isnt something u give and asked for something in return. Love is selfless if i can make example of it ill use Jesus Christ lets say bible is real and everything, He basically is Love. He died even tho he is God and can escape from all the pain but he didnt. He also knew that not everyone can return His kind of Love but he still did it. Thats Love = selfless thats why i believe human cant never have the so called "true love" the only thing we can posses close to love is true commitment.

Please pm me ur feet

So after reading these, I have a question for you: You are looking for somebody to date, and probably marry if you’re compatible – but have you ever thought about what you bring to the table? A successful marriage isn’t just finding the right person, it’s being the right partner too. I see a person who has a lot of issues that need to be dealt with before you can even think about having a successful relationship.

I hope you don’t see this as me judging you – Lord knows I certainly have enough of my own issues to deal with. But I see these things (if they’re true) as MAJOR issues holding you back from what you want. Furthermore, I see a lack of congruence between what you claim to believe (Christian) and what you’ve shared in your comments. So let's start there, with your faith, since it’s absolutely the most important thing in your life (and the afterlife).

So u/Just_trixia, do you know for sure that you will go to heaven when you die? And when you stand before Holy God, and He asks "Why should I let you into My heaven?", what reason will you give? What are the requirements for getting into heaven anyway? Jesus said in John 3: 3, "I tell you the truth, no one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again." So isn't going to church, being sorry for your sins and asking forgiveness enough? No, and here's why: we have all broken God's Law, the Ten Commandments. Who hasn't told a lie, stolen, used God's name in vain, or lusted after another person?

We will all stand before God on Judgment Day, just like standing before a judge in a courtroom, and answer for everything we have ever done. Everyone must pay for their crimes, and God's standard is total perfection in everything we say, do and think. None of us measure up. Then the Judge will pass sentence—even if we ask for forgiveness, because the Judge is bound by the Law to see that justice is done. Those that are guilty of the crime will do the time, and will end up in God's prison, which is hell. So what can we do?

Jesus Christ paid the penalty for your sins in His life's blood. You broke God's Law, Jesus paid your fine. That means your case can legally be dismissed and you can walk free from the courtroom on the Day of Judgment. But what you must do to receive this free gift is trust in Jesus Christ alone to save you, like the kind of trust you have in the pilot of an airplane when you fly. Then God will enable you to repent—this is more than just telling God you are sorry and ask for forgiveness; He will enable you to turn from your sinful life and begin to live for Him instead.

What does this look like? Suppose you’re sailing your boat out on the ocean when a big storm comes up. Your boat begins to fall apart and you find yourself in the water, hanging onto one little piece of wood with the waves crashing over you. You’re about to drown when a Coast Guard cutter comes up and the captain leans over the railing and yells, “I’m throwing you a life preserver. Grab on and we’ll pull you to safety!” One of the crew throws a life preserver into the water, right next to you. The only way you can grab the life preserver is to first let go of the waterlogged piece of rotten wood that was keeping you afloat. And so it is with repentance. Jesus throws the life preserver of eternal life, and after placing our trust in Him we must let go of our old life and grab onto the new life that He offers, living for Him instead of ourselves.

As soon as you do that, God will forgive every sin you have ever committed and you will be made righteous in His sight. Romans 8: 16 says "The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are God's children." What this means is that the Holy Spirit will come to live inside you, and will help you change your life to be an obedient follower of Jesus Christ. You will know you have been changed like nothing else you have ever known before.

The truth is, you don't clean up your life first and then come to Jesus. We can never be good enough for God to save us based on our actions. You come to Jesus first and He takes control of your life and begins to clean it up for you. The more you are obedient, the more you will see the old life slip away and be replaced by one that honors Christ. There is nothing you can do to earn your salvation. Ephesians 2: 8-9 says, "It is by grace you have been saved, through faith--and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God--not by works, so that no one can boast." Good works are only proof that you really are a Christian.

There are many people today who "believe in God" or have "asked Jesus into their heart" or are "religious" but have never repented of their sins or been born again by the power of the Holy Spirit, and they continue to live just as they did before they were "saved." Jesus talks about these kinds of people in Matthew 7: 21-23, "Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of My Father who is in heaven. Many will say to Me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name and in Your name drive out demons and in Your name perform many miracles?' Then I will tell them plainly, 'I never knew you. Away from Me, you evildoers!'"

Many people want the benefit of going to heaven without turning from their sin. They want to have their cake and eat it too. But following Christ means giving your life to Him to do with as He wants to. The truth is, when we repent, it doesn't mean that we will never sin again. It means that we try our best not to sin because we want to please God, and that we regret it when we do sin and then confess and forsake it. But God enables us to repent through the power of the Holy Spirit, and that is given to us when we trust in Christ.

Once you are a born again Christian, then 1 John 1: 9 applies to you as well "If we confess our sin, He is faithful and just to forgive our sin and cleanse us from all unrighteousness." This is a promise for the Christian, not for just anyone. God will take your broken life and transform you day by day to be more like Jesus. But you have to completely sell out to Him and trust in Jesus alone to save you, and then repent of your sins. In Luke 15:10, Jesus says "Likewise, I say to you, there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”

Does this make sense to you? If so, you can pray to receive Christ right now and have eternal life. You could pray something like this, in your own words, "God, I am sorry for all my sins against You. I turn from my sinful life right now and ask for Your forgiveness. Please save me and help me live a life that is obedient to Your Word, the Bible. I place my trust in Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. Thank You, Father, for the gift of everlasting life! Amen."

Your prayer will be shown to be real by your obedience to God's Word, so get a Bible and read it every day, starting with the gospel of John. You can also read or hear the Bible online, or download the Youversion Bible app if you have a smartphone. Find a good Bible-believing church to attend so you can fellowship with other believers, be encouraged and grow in faith. Also, begin to share your faith with others so they can have eternal life as well, and God will never let you down!

u/Just_trixia, I’m truly hoping today that you see the value in what I’ve shared with you here, and that you repent and trust in Christ so you can have eternal life. Let Him change you into who He wants you to be. He will bring you the right person when He’s ready, but He wants to be first in your life. Again, I hope you don’t see this as me judging you, I only want to help you connect with God, go to heaven, and help you be in a position to receive His blessings in your life. Feel free to PM me if you like.

Deep_Strength · 2018-05-03T18:21:54+00:00

I assume most of us don't know your particular dating market, but there are things you can do to make sure that you're a quality prospect for a man looking for a wife.

Work on growing spiritually in the fruits of the Spirit.
Develop the qualities of a virtuous wife in Proverbs 31
Work on developing the qualities of wives in Eph 5, Titus 2, 1 Peter 3.
Cater yourself to the type of husband you want. For example, if you wanted to be a housewife, then you need to be really good at domestic stuff
Stay slim and pretty.
Wear modest but form fitting dresses and skirts
Tasteful but don't overdo makeup
Be humble, kind, and generous
Interact and be good with kids, especially if you want a family
Learn how to be respectful and affirming to men as possible

Things like these will increase your chances that a Christian man will select you over other women.

Red-Curious · 2018-05-03T04:25:05+00:00

What makes you so desperate to find a wife in the first place? Let's start there to ensure your motives are oriented correctly before we go to the next step.

Xoramung · 2018-05-06T23:21:43+00:00

Na man single as.... Paul. Yeap, aint not many woman in the western world gonna be like Sarah and call their husband Lord [1 Peter 3:6].

Not saying that's what i am telling every woman they should do, but i am saying when i fail to see these types of Biblical qualities in the remaining leftover single woman, why would i wanna date them?

Title	Help with dating stuff
Author	Just_trixia
Upvotes	4
Comments	29
Date	May 2, 2018 10:40 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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