Finding the "one"

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December 2, 2019
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~"She's a unicorn and not AWALT."~

Now with that nonsense out of the way, i have found i believe someone to marry. Yes shes AWALT and no unicorn.

I read /u/RedPillWonder guide about RMV Checklist (which you should all read). She definitely does tick of many of those good points.

Ok bro's here is the checklist of good things:

  1. Holy Spirit filled (super important).
  2. Was impressed by me on a day i took zero notice of her, like did not even know she was there, and she was standing right under me, literally. She has said i have impressed her multiple times.
  3. Likes me, as in, actually likes me for me, my touch, my company, my beard, my voice, my honesty.
  4. Loves me teaching/leading her, i must have given her like 100 points from the Bible so far, she has received most of it.
  5. She was guarding my back (spiritually) several times.
  6. is a home girl, i would not have found her without church network
  7. I explained about my mission, authority, male leadership, and even understand and accepts my harsh way of dealing with foolish behavior. so far she is totally on board.
  8. I have set boundaries, and she is following them so far.
  9. Loves my muscles. Gentlemen, let me tell you, underlying big muscle's (I'm not even ripped) is a MASSIVE BOON. If you are not lifting, stop reading right now, go and get a free 5x5 online program, and tonight go start. She loves the size of my back and traps and shoulders, also triceps, biceps and forearms.
  10. Never been married or had kids.

What else should i be looking out for?

Thanks wise counselors.


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Title Finding the "one"
Author NoFaithInThisSub
Upvotes 5
Comments 10
Date 02 December 2019 04:29 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askRPC
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/304595
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askRPC/comments/e4tnv3/finding_the_one/
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[–]_divi_filius5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

- Sexual history?

- Shared values?

- Political alignment?

- Views on the more controversial biblical/Christian topics?

- Is she financially stable without you/parents in the picture?

- Relationship with her dad?

- Relationship with her mother?

- How many points from the bible has she sent you?

[–]NoFaithInThisSub 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy

  • How many points from the bible has she sent you?

You want me to learn from a woman constantly? She has said a few things, but I am the one doing all the teaching.

[–]_divi_filius0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Bro, that’s not what I said at all. The reason for this is, you need to be sure she reads the bible on her own and internalises it. If her relationship with the word is primarily through you, once the “lovey dovey” phase is over, you might be in for a shock.

[–]CarelessBowler51 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

u/NoFaithInThisSub this sort of thing happened to me. My wife is from a Christian background. She's been a believer her whole life. However, I realized after we got married that she herself doesn't have much of a private devotional life. Her conservative, homes-chooling parents force-fed Scripture down her throat that she never cultivated good habits on her own.

Yeah, she should listen to you. But she needs spiritual disciplines that ensure she's self-sustaining. It will save you a lot of trouble. My wife has zero clue about some biblical stuff because she personally hasn't had a long-standing discipline to read through Scripture on her own.

[–]Rifleshoot1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

What are her thoughts on kids? If she’s political, what does she believe? There are 3 things that need to be aligned when considering a woman for marriage: religion, politics, and children.

[–]4percent33811 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy

Is she a debt-free virgin without tattoos? Is she fat? -Mental illness doesn’t fully present until age 25. +1 on relationship with Dad and parents still married. -consider how her mom looks

Have you done anything 1:1 outside of church with her?

Have you been able to attract other girls? Smelling Oneitis here and not abundance.

[–]NoFaithInThisSub 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

Is she a debt-free virgin without tattoos?

These are not easy to find. Where would you look to find one?

Have you done anything 1:1 outside of church with her?

yes.

Have you been able to attract other girls? Smelling Oneitis here and not abundance.

as in pump and dump?

[–]4percent33810 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Where the virgins at? A good question as target rich environ helps.

This study says quite a few church-goers are: https://ifstudies.org/blog/sex-and-the-single-evangelical

I have seen other studies report that virginity is rising, so don’t despair. Though younger seems to be a better bet. Also I think 1 year of work experience is good to show her stability.

But do a little work yourself, read sidebar. Glad you’ve been enjoying her company, now think to your self am I desperate or is she really a catch? And pray.

[–]NoFaithInThisSub 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

And pray.

This 1st and foremost. I'm basically 40 myself, not really after a 21 yr old who may later get deceived and want to "go explore" on my expense. Yes i will think how to myself these things, thanks.

[–]4percent33811 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Newsflash: all the good ones are married by 25.

You want to wait for the girls to get off the dick-carousel? What do you think your chances of landing a 30 year old virgin are?



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