Is online game ie Hinge/bumble a waste of time vs Daygame? (NYC)

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2020-01-09T00:35:20+00:00

Do both.

Truedemocracy6 · 2020-01-09T00:50:21+00:00

Hot girls use apps these days, so do quality ones

But as other poster said NYC sucks for relationships from apps. Why? Because the options are abundant. Everyone for the most part has somewhat style, intelligence, fit, and is interesting.

No not everyone is you. But maybe she gets bored with the 300k whatever you do and wants the musician, the bar owner, the physical trainer, etc

Hypergamy knows no bounds

thatjammm · 2020-01-09T01:10:16+00:00

Dating apps are a buffer for rejection. That you don’t have time is an excuse. You need to make time to intentionally socialize. Dating apps aren’t efficient; they’re lazy. They were only invented bc men were too afraid to say hello. Bumble was probably invented but some sub par basic bitch. I have no idea but if someone wants to google her and post the pic I’d bet money on it. Check out the Rational Male by rollo Tomassi. He goes into more detail on this topic. And he fucks. A lot.

Oh yeah, the quality of girls on dating apps will inherently be lower on average. Pictures are deceiving. And any girl that has the mindset of using hinge or bumble probably isn’t a girl that’s of sound mind. Girls mostly use dating apps for attention/validation.

XT3M3 · 2020-01-09T06:01:18+00:00

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WIA20XX · 2020-01-09T02:10:06+00:00

You sound like a transplant.

Day game? In NYC? At 36? What kind of loser shit is that? Running around Washington Square like a college kid? Chatting up chicks coming out of Serendipity?

You should be primarily fucking off of night game and social circle. In NYC, night life ranges from niche music scenes to gallery openings. It's not just 1 dollar beer college night and old hags at wine bars.

As far as your social circle goes, you should have been expanding that for YEARS. No co-workers? Clients? Vendors? Industry chums? Bitches you already fucked?

Without meeting people, you'll likely to be stuck making 3rd year law firm associate money.

You gotta take advantage of NYC. Day game at your age is not a good look. Now if you see a girl at Dos Toros, you should step up.

But the way most guys do day game in NYC is basically roam stuff below 14th like they were selling memberships in climate change charity. That's not a good use of your time. You might come across a hotter chick that way, but you should be going to where chicks concentrate themselves.

NigroqueSimillima · 2020-01-09T00:39:14+00:00

Online women are going to view most guys as disposable because to them most guys are. New York city is a terrible place for relationships from what I've heard, still being 6'2 and making that much money should put you a hair above the rest. Are you ugly?

But yes, if you're looking for a relationship I'd stay clear of dating apps in a city that, the chance that those girls haven't been on the cock carousel is extremely low. Your goal should be to grab a young girl who literally just moved to the city and lock her down before the rest of the place ruins her.

If you're just trying to fuck hotter chicks casually, then online dating is incredibly efficient, just pay a really good photographer a few hundred dollars to take some nicer pictures of you.

thatjammm · 2020-01-09T01:19:42+00:00

Both. Get away from the mental concept of day game/night game. Make it a priority to be comfortable in your own skin first and talk to girls that catch your eye regardless of the time of day.

Read that book. And she’s a billionaire bc she’s found a way to monetize and exploit the insecurities of the masses.

OdysseusMaxim · 2020-01-09T01:23:56+00:00

Daygame is definitely the way to go. All girls want to be swooned by the guy they met on the street, not in some bar or club that they went to probably just to get a quick lay. It's a story they can tell their girlfriends and rationalize to themselves about how you weren't like "every other guy that approached them at night looking for a fuck". It makes them more likely to fuck you if you have good game IMO. (Plus, the quality girls aren't on dating apps usually. I've only ever met one that was.) Living in NYC, but going to college I don't go out much bc it's a) expensive and b) not the best use of my time. But I have a lot of hot girlfriends that do, girlfriends in the sense that I flirt with them and keep them around to fuck and they know that as well. You've gotta have some really strong frame tho to compete in NYC. I say that you should level up your frame gradually to make it unbreakable and focus on that for this year. It'll make you so attractive to girls. Also, look up comedian Patrice O'Neal. Dude is godsent with this type of stuff.

letsbiohackslaves · 2020-01-09T02:53:12+00:00

Ur making 300K and youre spending your time on a lame forum? Hire a bunch of tinder managers and experiment with results. Heck, you could even pay to be networked with good girls. Are you a programmer or smth?

Title	Is online game ie Hinge/bumble a waste of time vs Daygame? (NYC)
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Date	January 9, 2020 12:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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