How can I speak feminine, and have patience?

iMakeGreatDeals · 2020-01-17T02:27:44+00:00

Learn to respond and not to react.

Responsibility is your response-ability .. your ability to respond.

To react can be defensive and emotional, to respond can be compassionate and thoughtful.

Just.. slow down. There is no rush. When you slow down you can have more opportunity to become yourself. Instead of running reactive programming, you can be present and mindful in the moment.

Dr__Noonian__Soong · 2020-01-16T22:10:10+00:00

It’s about your breath. You have two women inside you, one if a fierce fighter and the other is the calm wise one, graceful and serene. You call them with your breath. Short shallow breath calls up the fighter, deep slow breaths call up the calm one, who can hold her emotions in check and influence everyone around her. Try it!

Pola_Lita · 2020-01-16T21:35:20+00:00

It's habit, mostly. Get in the habit of thinking before you speak. Adjust your volume, ask yourself if what you want to say is kind or helpful. If not, ask if it's necessary.

My problem was my choice of vocabulary. It took time and I used a lot of old-fashioned words for a while, but eventually it became second nature.

This won't help avoid differences of opinion but it will help you keep your dignity and think more clearly while doing it.

meditationwolf · 2020-01-16T21:37:59+00:00

The obvious answer is - speak more softly. Lol. But I do get where you’re coming from!

I like to give myself a “role” to fulfill. For example, when I’m around my husband, my “role” is to be attractive. Everything I do is layered with that. Making dinner? How can I be attractive? I can serve an appetizer or bring a drink. Wear a cute apron. Tease him. Etc.

Same goes for anything. Family function? My “role” is to be a soft place to land. I’m gentler, softer, sweeter.

TL;DR- people like having a PURPOSE. If you give yourself a purpose, or “role” to fulfill, you might find that changing yourself and your mood overall makes all the small, specific goals easier to do naturally.

pm_me_milk_caramels · 2020-01-18T06:26:29+00:00

A youtuber called Mrs. Midwest made a really helpful (at least for me haha) video about this topic! 😊

rosesonthefloor · 2020-01-17T05:48:17+00:00

When things work you up and you realize you're not able to respond with patience (this happened to me today), take a breath. Breathe deep. Think about whether or not what you're about to say will be helpful, or kind. If it's not either, think about why you want to say it. If it's hurtful or unhelpful, don't say it.

Introspection and thinking about why/what you are thinking to say can help to change your way of thinking.

ArtBetween · 2020-01-25T13:02:11+00:00

Try to speak kindly and softly. Allow yourself to stumble and stammer and say the wrong things until you get better at it and develop a brand you’re satisfied with.

Title	How can I speak feminine, and have patience?
Author	hells_carebear
Upvotes	25
Comments	14
Date	January 16, 2020 8:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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