How to be mysterious

kushapedia · 2020-01-23T20:32:34+00:00

Talk less. Dont give detailed answers or dont answer questions seriously. Dont be an open book. Make her work to discover things about you.

RacistMuffin · 2020-01-23T20:37:14+00:00

Mystery is a concept that is commonly recognized with a female not knowing your intent. But, there are some cases where mystery can be recognized as how "busy" you are. Alpha males are mostly known as mysterious as well.

Being "busy" can be known as not being needy with the women. Since males have their emotions, thoughts, and time available. A person that is noted as mysterious gives it sparingly to the women hes seeing. That's why when you arent needy, women contain that attraction towards you since you are the "mysterious" alpha fucks that doesnt express their emotions openly(which is highly attractive). This also means you dont answer texts and calls often, or take a while to(time). And you dont openly express your thoughts in a situation, since alpha males only make statements that are impactful.

Not displaying your intent and only allowing premise to be depicted is also a form of mystery. Premise is something that establishes a male to female relationship between you and that set. However, the key difference is that intent allows the female know that you want her, crave her, want to fuck her, etc. That's why most PUAs praise creating premise as opposed to displaying your intent. Females live off of not knowing whether or not you want to fuck her. That's the mystery. Its unknown and they constantly chase that validation from you.

Also, conversation skills allow for you to be "mysterious". If you have the ability to lead a conversation that surveys around topics that she talks about most of the time. It makes her seem like shes revealing everything about her, but you're leading the conversation. This is the idea known as leading narrative. Its key to note that you answer simple questions, but dont explain your answers. You are frame controlling the entire time. Theres a key difference from being mysterious, and just being a shy/social awkward fuck, it's the ability of leading the conversation but not revealing information about yourself.

Mystery isnt there when a relationship is formed though, or just not as much when dealing with a set or a plate. Females do not like mystery in a LTR since the female requires compatablity for her to agree with that idea. Therefore, it creates a necessity to reveal information about yourself. That's why you are known are more beta and a provider when you are in a relationship

In short: do not display your intent, but create a premise. Be resourceful and scarce with your resources(emotions, thoughts, time). Know how to lead the conversation and create a narrative where she only reveals information

frognads · 2020-01-24T04:20:57+00:00

Buy a fedora and grow a soul patch

mr4kino · 2020-01-23T21:42:30+00:00

Get that Harry Potter wand

30dirtyfingers · 2020-01-24T12:48:50+00:00

Talk less about yourself and more about her. Dont let her know everything about you. Talk but say nothing (this one is tricky). Take some time to answer, even when in front of her. I tend to give myself 5-7 seconds before answering some questions (thats the amount of time a saumrai would take to make a decision). Be consistantly inconsistant (any pattern you develop with her, break them just because). Talk about other girls but vaguely and NO NAMES. When you tell a story, be vague with its time frame (coulda happend today, coulda happened 3 years ago).

Gotta keep these bitches guessing.

kuroshabedi · 2020-06-13T20:17:06+00:00

Girls and people in general always called me a mysterious person and they always wanted to know more about me. I will explain you why. I talk less i am like a spectator. I ask more questions and i am a good listener. They have always the feeling that they dont know anything about me. I always get people reveal a lot about themselves because its my nature to reveal less but let the other person talk more. I hide my emotions. I am always smiling in a decent neutral way. I am a deep person that likes deep meaningful conversations. I am unobtrusive but thats exactly what makes me noticeably. Whenever i enter a room people view me as somebody that is different then the others. I appear calm and introverted but i am not shy. People always want to know what i am thinking and they cant figure me out. My appearance is very normal easy and dark simple colours but that makes me mysterious. I am most of the time alone with myself and i hide my social activities and i dont post about my personality. I dont do all these things intentionally its just my nature i cant stop it. Even when i am talking a lot or showing a lot emotions it doesnt matter i always appear mysterious. They always think its a facade and there lies something mysterious behind it. I hope this helps

empatheticapathetic · 2020-01-24T02:26:21+00:00

Check out mystery man by heathcliff—

Title	How to be mysterious
Author	RP_utiliser
Upvotes	7
Comments	20
Date	January 23, 2020 8:18 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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