Now just like my last post, the spergs are going to take the title literally, but here we go.

The advice is simple. If you have never met a girl before in person it should not take you more than 3-4 text messages to get her phone number from whatever OLD app or social media app you opened her on.

On OLD especially, texts should go something like this:

Hey Alessia

Hey

What's your number

I'd have to get to know you better

No one fell in love over text / nothing important was ever written with thumbs / you can't really know someone until you look them in the eyes and feel their energy

(xxx) - xxx - xxxx

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Keep it dumb simple

If there isn't anything important to say, don't say it. By opening yourself up to rejection you polarize these girls that you should be screening for high interest. Either they say yes or no.

If the girl has an ounce or two of interest she won't fumble the opportunity of getting with you just because of her pride.

Play the numbers game

The same goes with talking to girls in person. You want to play the numbers game and screen for high interest. If your SMV isn't very high naturally you will be pulling lower SMV girls (most of the time). However, when you play the numbers game you come to find out that your SMV is extremely fluid and volatile with varying types of women. I know some beautiful women who only go for dudes that are 300lb bouncers/security guards. Other girls just like ugly masculine guys‎. It's a matter of finding out for yourself, and you won't be able to do it by beating around the bush.

Rapport ≠ interest

You probably have a false belief that you must build rapport to raise her interest. This is not necessarily true. By taking the direct approach you give off a high-status vibe and an unmatched aura of confidence, so although polarizing may weed out the maybe girls, it generally turns the yes girls into FUCK YES girls off the bat.

I have personally found that the approach that cuts the bullshit and gets straight to the point is absolutely the most efficient way to get to a yes or no and 5x more effective in not shooting yourself in the dick and saying something stupid. You have to read Mode One by Alan Roger Currie to understand what I'm talking about if you haven't experienced it yet.

It probably took me my first 50 or 100 cold approach rejections to really completely get over the idea that rejection matters at all, and people always ask me how I'm so confident in approaching girls. It's because I put in the work and failed many more times than they have even tried, and doing it quickly became second nature.

Setting up the date

Now that you've gotten her number, you can text her her name back herself to alert her when she receives your text and even reminds her of how direct you are. This is what I like to do, as the name stays at the top of the messages and I can search their name in the iMessage search bar to find them without having to save their contact (I suggest never saving a girl's contact that you haven't fucked). Your next text should be along the lines of "I'm taking you out for X at Ypm on Z day". She agrees and sends you her address, you pick her up and enjoy the rest of your night.

If you repeat this process even a dozen times you will have a feeling of mastery because you're prepared for every situation and possibility at this point. That's when you come to realize that even outside your little date protocol you can have the same confidence. That was the point when I truly left the matrix and realized how endless the possibilities are if you create those opportunities.

What game really is

Remember, game comes after your intentions are already clear, and she knows you want to fuck her. This is the point when if she is interested she will start to shit test you. The only other time you will get shit tests from a girl without her knowing your intentions is when you're in a social circle setting and she wants to spike your interest without appearing too direct in front of other people.

Embrace your masculine, sociable, cocky side

Tying it back to rapport. When you're ACTUALLY ON THE DATE you can go ahead and build a little bit of rapport, trust, and comfort like any normal person would have a normal conversation. Slowly you'll tweak your game and say cockier, riskier things and naturally be more sexual in your conversations. Girls honestly remember you by the first 30 minutes of what you did and how you acted on the first date, then later you can just coast and relax when you know they like you. This is the point when you apply heavier kino.

Conclusion

Rapport is not necessary for sexual attraction. They just need enough (not a lot) to trust that you're not a weirdo and get some comfort to do what they really want to you. Most of the rapport I build is after sex because that's when it's actually needed. They don't want to regret fucking you, so give them comfort and cuddles after sex.

This was quite a long post, but let me know your thoughts and ideas because this is only my experience and I would love to hear what you guys have to say.