[Q4All] Am I the only one for whom attraction can absolutely be negotiated?

Common mantra on some of these subs is that it cannot. Usually in the context of "first impression is make or break for physical attraction". Generally I have seen this as advice for men perusing women. In my case as a man this is not true.

Certainly looks are a significant factor to me in attraction, and first impressions can be impactful but that's far from the whole story. At best this will determine the amount I would pursue intimacy off the bat.

Once I get to know someone my feelings often change radically including physical attraction. There is a lower threshold for this but not an upper one. For me the difference between a decent looking woman and the best looking woman alive isn't enough for me to justify putting up with someone I dislike as a person, even as a casual thing. Sometimes also I have found myself falling for women I initially didn't notice at all once I spent more time around them.