Unattractive teen girl - need advice?

LuckyLittleStar · 2020-01-27T03:33:09+00:00

Doxing yourself, or volunteeting to dox yourself, is against the rules.

SraSB · 2020-01-26T11:13:34+00:00

I'm concerted about you. You are a 14 year old prepared to send nude pics to anyone, for money. (Ive checked profile)That's child pornography and a very slippery slope that is not going to bring anything good.

Please talk with a trustworthy adult in your live about what you are going through.

Praying for you

ikfl · 2020-01-26T10:38:06+00:00

Firstly, you need to calm down. You are 14 years old, no need to stress! There are women twice your age just now realizing that they need to improve in order to succeed, so you are in no way too late to the game. Stress will age you for than anything, if that’s a motivator to calm down.

Second. Try to get braces if your teeth are crooked, or save and plan to get them when you’re older. Be diligent with your oral care, floss daily and maybe even whiten. Figure out your skin care needs, you absolutely do not need to think about anti-aging but more so hydrating and getting a nice glow. Improve your hair and work with whatever texture you’ve got instead of against it. Hydrate and make it shiny, experiment with hairstyles.

All in all, you are very young. You have time to experiment and figure out what works for you. The most important thing is to be interested in investing in your beauty. You also need to work on your self confidence. Nothing is more unattractive than someone who is convinced that she is unworthy and unattractive.

Edit: You will probably grow into your face as well, so please be kind to yourself.

HappilyMrs · 2020-01-26T11:59:33+00:00

You honestly look fine. We've mostly all been there. 14 is a sucky age, it feels like you don't fit in to either the adult or the child world. I wouldn't wish it on anyone!

You will get through it. See a dentist about braces, if you can. Aside from that, take care of your skin all over with sun screen and moisturiser, and be kind to yourself. Give yourself all the love and gentleness you would a treasured best friend or beloved sister. You and you are going to be the only relationship that lasts every single moment the rest of your life, so try to make that relationship a healthy one.

Good luck :)

WildTenderness · 2020-01-26T16:28:21+00:00

The first thing you need to do is to learn to love yourself. You could be the least attractive human being on earth and this would still be the first step. No amount of changing yourself or 'improving' yourself will make you feel better or more attractive if you don't first learn to love what you've been given. If you're religious, dive deeper into it, if not (like me), I suggest researching mindfulness and getting into it. It's changed my life. Best of luck! You deserve to feel good about yourself without making drastic changes <3

LookingForEquanimity · 2020-01-26T17:25:19+00:00

K I saw a picture of you. You’re not unattractive. At all. You have great clear beautiful skin, a nice smile and perfectly symmetrical features. From your description I was expecting Quasimodo.
Your looks aren’t the issue here - I think the issue is self esteem and honestly as a 14 year old girl I think it’s pretty normal to have low self esteem. You need to focus on developing hobbies and friendships and getting good grades. That in turn will boost your confidence and make you more sure of yourself and confident and able to make better decisions in the future. Also, you’re only 14. So you’re still a child and will drastically change over the next 10 years.
You are not unattractive!
As for working out - again you’re 14. Just take up a sport like soccer or volleyball - that’s really all you need to do to “work out”.
Limit social media - not using it at all would be best. If you’re looking at influencers online they look NOTHING in real life like they do in pics.
Please take of yourself. You are all you got. Confide in an aunt or another female relative if you don’t feel comfortable confiding in your parents. I suppose you could read this link for teen advice....

http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2012/11/female-game-for-girls-in-their-teens.html?m=1

HildaEast · 2020-01-26T16:27:50+00:00

Girl, you are NOT ugly.

I looked at your profile. It looks like you have some mental issues though (but many do at 14/15... I was def pretty weird at that age). Work on those. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself, who is confident, grateful for what you have, and kind.

I understand you might not feel attractive now at 14/15, because you have a "look" and you don't look generic. Boys your age don't appreciate that (but let me guess: do adults ever compliment your looks??)

You have strong features. You probably wish you could look like the generically pretty girls at your school that guys your age go after, but there's a very high likelihood that their look is not what you want later in life (and later in life counts for more).

As for myself at your age, I was in the last batch to hit puberty, and very skinny. I dreamed of being like the slightly chubby girls that filled out their jeans and bras. I hated my skinny legs because they didn't fit what the guys at my school found attractive. Welp. Now I love that I have a fairly easy time staying skinny.

Your face is symmetrical and has a nice shape. You have big beautiful eyes. You have a strong look, but you are NOT unattractive. I can totally see you as the kind of girl who can pull off extravagant fashionable outfits. Stay skinny, work on your style. You can be a showstopper with the right look. Maybe look into getting braces or aligners, but you can put it off until later too.

Title	Unattractive teen girl - need advice?
Author	Mysterious-Comedian
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Comments	12
Date	January 26, 2020 10:05 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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