You just had a great conversation with a girl! Maybe you met her through a dating app, maybe you met her in real life.

And she agreed to go on a date with you!

You text back and forth until the day of the date.

And there you are with your cock in your hand, jerking it off to your fantasies about the girl while being careful not to cum - because you're saving that for the date! You cheeky fuck!

10 minutes before the date: "Hey, sorry I can't make it today because I had <insert bullshit excuse>"

And now you finish jerking off and mark the day as an L...

It'd be great if this was just a one time thing but it happens over and over again and you just can't figure out why! Is it your text game? Is it because you were too needy?

The answer is because you didn't have enough value.

The truth hurts.

95% of the time, when girls cancel, it's because they just don't think you have enough value compared to them. Girls will actively chase high value men while rejecting even the best attempts at getting her to go out from low value men.

And this is especially hard to grasp if you've been working on yourself. You think girls should be hopping on your dick just because you've been going to the gym for a couple months and look slightly less skinnyfat?

So the number one way to reduce flaking is... to raise your value as a man! Lift! Make more money! Dress well when you go out!

But you already know that. And if you are looking for a quick fix, unfortunately, it takes more than a couple months to build up your Value as a man and for some people with a low starting line, it could even take years.

So with that being said, in the meantime, here are some ways to supplement your value to get over the top 10% line so you can start getting laid today!

1) Build a high value Instagram. Some of you already live pretty cool lives. If you routinely travel and eat out at restaurants, there's no reason you shouldn't be sharing your life on Instagram. If you actually have a lot of cool pics on Instagram, it will make getting the girl to go out with you 10X easier. Now, instead of thinking of witty things to say on text (which she knows is try-hard), she's checking her feed and stalking you! It's literally the perfect tool for making girls chase you. All you have to do is make sure you look good in all the photos and that you have high value friends hanging around you. So delete the old photos of your family members or nerdy friends.

2) Always Make The Girl Qualify Herself To You: The ABC's of Sales is Always Be Closing. But with girls, when you keep trying to invent clever ways to ask her out, you end of shooting yourself in the foot because it shows that you're needy and don't have any better options. Why spend so much effort on coming up with witty lines in text if you're actually a high value man?

Therefore, the correct way to deal with women right from the get-go is ABQ. Always Be Qualifying.

When you first meet her, tell her that you're only looking for a certain type of girl and if she's not it, then you won't bother.

After you get her number and you start texting, you're going to force her to qualify herself to you over and over again. If you have a hard time with this, imagine that you are Chris Hemsworth or Brad Pitt and you have millions of hot girls throwing themselves at you on a daily basis. How would you filter out the worthy ones from the average ones?

You'll be asking her questions about her family, what accomplishments she has, what her values are, etc. The more you can get her to qualify herself to you, the better.

3) Reveal as little about yourself as possible. When in doubt, Show, don't Tell. Show your life on Social Media, don't tell her jack shit

If she asks what qualities you're looking for, don't reveal it like a dumbass. Mystery breeds intrigue and intrigue forces girls to chase you. Deflect personal questions she asks you with Agree And Amplify.

When girls ask you questions about yourself, treat it exactly like a shit test. Do not take it seriously and actually reveal what you do - unless you actually do something cool like pro athlete or 10K/day CEO.

If the girl asks you what you do, my favorite answer is, "I work as an actor for this website you might have heard of: Brazzers!"

If you're working a boring 9-5 job like most men, there's ZERO benefit for revealing what you do.

You kill any sense of mystery or intrigue and a lot of girls will autoreject you if your career doesn't fit their idea of what a high value man is.

This is hard for most men to understand because they intuitively understand that when a girl is asking them lots of personal questions then things are going really well since the girl wants to know more about them. Then they want to make sure they don't "screw up" so they just answer every question like a good beta boy and all the initial attraction they built up rapidly disappears until there's none left.

It may be hard for you at first but you must do everything in your power to keep your cool when things are going well and the girl is asking you questions about yourself. Don't. Reveal. Anything. If you absolutely cannot resist, then please at least make sure you don't reveal anything until after you have sex with her. And even then, take it nice and slow, reveal as little as possible.

Conclusion:

Now, the above 3 techniques are not a long term solution. They are only meant to be a supplement to building up your overall value as a man. So that means you still need to be going to go to the gym at least 3X a week. You're still going to read like your life depends on it. And you're still going to focus on your career or business.

However, if you're actively working on yourself and would like to see some results immediately, then use the 3 above tips and you should see a massive increase in conversion rates for dates.

If you don't see at least twice as many dates as before, write a comment here and I'll work with you to solve your problem because you must be doing something wrong.