This drives me crazy because I really never know what to believe. Like just today I was texting a girl back and forth and she said I was super cute /pretty handsome.

She asked for more pictures too ( online app, we haven’t met yet) but when I suggested we hang out or maybe I stop by her work ( she works somewhere related to my interests/hobbies) she just ghosted for a few hours.

So I said “ if that’s okay with you”

She texts me back with some bullshit “ oh I was cleaning my room and putting some things away” “ that’s definately okay with me”

Lame excuse , couldve just said you’re busy

So she’s obviously not interested , she’s totally my type too ( we’re both alternative with a few piercings and tattoos and we like the same type of music)

I just never understood this. You hardly know me after talking a day. All we talked about are our interests too. I didn’t say anything off putting.

I’ve had this happen in real life too. A girl will come up to me and say I’m cute or when I was in school word would get around in class and I’d capitalize on it only to get shut down immediately or get the “ I think we should just be friends” if I did actually get to hangout and my physical advances rejected.

If they had actually gotten to know me a little before hand and our personalities weren’t a match I could see that but this isn’t the case.

Women are insane. I don’t get it.

Not trying to hear the hur dur “ abundance mentality”. There is no abudence.

Hur dur “ lift and get shredded and groom better”

I’ve already been lifting since my mid teens and take care of myself pretty well. My body fat is low too. That shit doesn’t help. Kinda impossible to get fat being in my trade anyway. I don’t buy high end designer clothes , my style is much more punk rock. That’s the type of chick I go after anyways more often than not.