So I discovered this subreddit a few months ago, and it’s quite honestly changed my life, both with men and also the rest of how I go about my day to day

One thing I’ve realised which is depressing but needed to be done - is that almost all my male partners haven’t made me cum. It was me touching myself while he was having sex with me that would get me over the edge. But I tricked myself into thinking “but I AM finishing when we have sex!” But the sad reality is, their foreplay, their dick and their touching me just isn’t enough and I have to rely on myself to do it. I’m basically masturbating but with a whole load more risks and I can’t even focus fully on myself!

At this point, I might as well just be masturbating alone at home where I’m comfy, no risk of STIs/UTIs and FDS has helped me realise thats not even a bad thing anymore!