Were any of you romantics that got their heart broken too many times ?

ComprehensiveMGTOW · 2020-10-22T16:54:15+00:00

I was... until mid 2007... she cheated, and then lied to my friends turning them against me, and lied to my manager making up false allegations against me.

I cut her out of my left, I found a new job, and I never looked back.

gtowerthrowaway · 2020-10-22T17:13:50+00:00

Men are the actual romantics, loving women regardless of where they came from, what they've done in life, or what they bring to the table.

Women are the realists, only having a relationship if it's beneficial in spheres unrelated to the man (money, power, etc.)

Of course, society pretends the exact opposite, which is a combination of gynocentrism and projection.

Or, as someone here put it:

Men are the romantics pretending to be realists

Women are the realists pretending to be romantics

2020-10-22T16:37:01+00:00

I'll bet everyone of us.

larueon22s · 2020-10-22T16:42:06+00:00

Yea, I was. Took me a long time to learn though that treating them romantically dries them up and treating them like you don’t need them keeps them around.

sootlord · 2020-10-22T17:34:25+00:00

Yes, I am one of them. Spent my late teens and mid twenties craving being with women and getting heartbroken in the process. All of them ended with them cheating. Then I embraced the red pill and a year later got my heartbroken one last time by a hot older woman and went through the red pill rage and extinguished any romantic fuel I have left. I'm cold now and prefer to be that way.

Honestly I do not trust women and never will.

Dunkman83 · 2020-10-22T18:27:09+00:00

yep

got cheated on twice. forgave her.

she still left me and slept with my friends.

had another gf that was equally a hoe

never again

silly_birb · 2020-10-22T17:10:03+00:00

I was. Now i just read books.

StormyBeef · 2020-10-22T17:05:13+00:00

Just once, in my mid teens. Enough to put me off 'romance' for a few years. Enough time to find other things way more interesting and meaningful. And by the time I decided to get back into it, I thought "hey, if I understand women, like REALLY understand them, it'll be easier to attract them, right?". So I started looking things up and that's when I found out.

Iqbal40862715 · 2020-10-22T17:53:02+00:00

I was too.... then the female chameleon turned. I thought she was a sex kitten non nagging bitch that used to blow me like Heather Harmon. Over time she stopped acting and I realized she's actually a nasty nagging ball break narcissistic twat on steroids.

someevilwhitemen · 2020-10-22T20:07:32+00:00

aka you were a simp, i wont even tell here some of the grand gestures ive done when i was younger , because how pathetic it sounds today

the romance thing is not made for men , it will never truly satisfy you, and it will satisfy her just for a brief instant

greyman0425 · 2020-10-22T16:48:48+00:00

Then we got married and we wished we were incels.

jhooperp · 2020-10-23T11:31:33+00:00

There was this one girl.

You know the story.

You know the ending.

SonOfAldrete · 2020-10-22T19:23:41+00:00

I think it depends on a lot of factors. For me, I was only hurt one time, but that death took place from age 16 to about 21. Those were some rough years. From 16 to my early 18th year, it felt like I had just been told my family had been all slain. I went back and fort between nothingness, a glimmer of hope, and complete despair until I narrowly missed my veins. You can call it rationalizing or a crutch, but it was in that moment that I had my coming to God moment. Though I have learned since then that was not I direct choice, because you have to be called.

I am reminded of a line from a breaking Benjamin song (Unknown Solider I think) where he says "It only hurts just once", and I would agree that is true for myself. For other people, they might be stronger than myself. I entered other relationships but didn't really feel anything in them. That was my goal, and I regret doing that. After one awful experience, I think many men choose to not completely give themselves to anyone because that is a mistake of the young and naive. At least we don't do it so quickly like I did when I was a boy.

blackstreetxy · 2020-10-22T20:55:43+00:00

Nah....my romanticism died in my youth. Had nothing to do with MGTOW/female nature. I kinda just outgrew it.

My embracing MGTOW has everything to do with pure analysis of the laws, their execution and most important - modern woman. Social media has let them reveal themselves.

StingRayFins · 2020-10-23T02:09:03+00:00

I was until my first gf and I've never been the same again. Decided to be picky, strict, cynical after that. Love is bullshit.

Until now she's still single and a hoe. I didn't know that as a blue pill 16 year old. I committed and put all my eggs in one basket for nothing in return.

Stupidest shit ever.

BoredMaxing82 · 2020-10-22T19:22:48+00:00

njafss · 2020-10-22T20:46:20+00:00

I don't like this question xD
it reads too much like a rewrite of the "who hurt you" accusation.

That said, yes, i was a romantic, and yes, i have been hurt, but i came to mgtow because it makes sense, not because i got "my heart broken too many times"

hope you feel the same

GmanRaz · 2020-10-23T13:01:55+00:00

Men have always been the Romantics. Women are incapable of it. Think about it. Every revered and famous romantic poem, film. book, play, painting, song etc.. was written by a man. Men project the way we love onto women.. women are not and have never been and will never be romantic. They are cold and calculated.

We men played ourselves.

phoenixgreek · 2020-10-22T16:30:01+00:00

I’ve written letters to a LDR girl around this time last year. Bought her plushies & shit cause I thought things were getting serious. She never initiated conversations or cared about me as much as I did her (typical). After discovering MGTOW, at times I look back & cringe/laugh at my simp days.

Ahielia · 2020-10-22T20:08:28+00:00

Yes.

The4thMigoo · 2020-10-22T20:26:57+00:00

Twice... Unfortunately.

Comprehensive-Bat-17 · 2020-10-23T03:07:11+00:00

This is the saddest lie in men going MGTOW. It will never be reciprocated. This idea, is not even in a woman's DNA. If they word it in their dating profile or whatever. They are lying their ass off. Women can't even coerce me to say the word love anymore.

Rick : Listen Morty, I hate to break it to you, but what people calls "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage.

CeleritySteam · 2020-10-23T19:48:11+00:00

I once was, but realized females cannot love the easy way. So then I just got waifus.

EnvironmentalRest4 · 2020-10-22T23:40:22+00:00

Oh and how.

Look up “dork” in the dictionary and you find two pictures of me under that heading, just so you won’t think it’s a simple mistake.

Harlen21 · 2020-10-23T00:37:08+00:00

To a certain extent Im still a hopeless romantic, but I know that such a thing will only happen in my dreams.

Throwthe8827 · 2020-10-23T00:50:58+00:00

MeToo.

Most of guys with broken hearts were romantics.

morpheus816 · 2020-10-23T02:24:08+00:00

Only once, until I saw the upside of her breaking up with me and the crap I'd be leaving behind. Never looked back after that.

jabbercockey · 2020-10-23T03:57:43+00:00

The hardest lesson wasn't the myriad times I swooned over some undeserving, uncaring female. The pain was realizing that the whole damned idea was false. A true paradigm shift.
Worse than learning the truth about Santa Claus.

Sardaukar2017 · 2020-10-23T05:34:39+00:00

Many of us. MGTOW doesn’t recruit. You’re driven to forge your path. Because our anger and sorrow drive you there. You seek understanding. You seek community. MGTOW let’s you restore sovereignty and enable sanity.

Nuclearrussian74 · 2020-10-23T05:47:28+00:00

Yes.

2020-10-23T08:22:20+00:00

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Launch_Day_My_Dudes · 2020-10-23T22:21:19+00:00

Yeah, my first relationship ended in cucking.

Principle of Mediocrity in mathematics says that one random example of a group is probably typical of it. So if the first woman I date is that kind, it follows that most women are like that.

I got redpilled hard and wrote off the possibility of marriage, LTRs, cohabitation, etc. since then.

IceyBear988 · 2020-10-24T01:03:07+00:00

One relationship is enough to teach you much about life, the rest is how the society enables the opposite sex to bully and destroy responsibility. If one requires more than one relationship to learn about life, i'd say he's on the "slow" lane of the highway.

Title	Were any of you romantics that got their heart broken too many times ?
Author	blackstreetxy
Upvotes	42
Comments	52
Date	October 22, 2020 4:06 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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