Being labelled gay because i didn't try fuck a girl ?

JKMonk97 · 2020-10-30T09:05:48+00:00

Oh dude, i am 32 and i am still labeled as guy from my parents or friends., because i dont date and have a girlfriend and when i will have kids.

Once i told them i don't want a dick in my ass, my hormones work properly and i like pussy and boobs.

After that, i told them i dont trust in marriage, relationship and i dont want to sign a stupid contract with another being.

After that i started to live alone, because they become very toxic.

thesquad232 · 2020-10-30T11:03:45+00:00

You hurt her ego, in a females mind they think they can sleep with any guy they want. You did the right thing bro don't worry about it.

hulkasauruswrex · 2020-10-30T08:59:42+00:00

If women don't get to rape you by their definition yes they consider you gay. Welcome to clown world it only gets dumber from here.

herzeleid02 · 2020-10-30T09:03:04+00:00

Why you even bother with their opinion, you did what you think was right, and besides, no one got hurt.

someevilwhitemen · 2020-10-30T09:40:54+00:00

sorry for you !! its today society !! if you dont submit to any female desire you will be shamed

learn the great way to not giving a shit , use these instances to gain some self confidence

you made a choice, be proud of it

Lord_Hatertroll · 2020-10-30T11:23:28+00:00

Shaming tactics 101

selfism_mike · 2020-10-30T11:19:20+00:00

They just say it to hurt you, they don't really believe it. Women can't handle rejection, because all they have as parasites is someone else's goods, so they need to shame men into sharing their money and time with them. Shaming is a parasitic strategy.

To get over it, you need to get angry, and then purposefully reject any desire for the approval of these subhumans. Indeed, if they approved of you then you would certainly know you did something wrong with your life.

CrossfadeAMV · 2020-10-30T11:40:48+00:00

Ha ha I know your pain. I went on a trip last year with fellow MGTOW bros. People are sure I am gay because there where no pussies on the photos. I am over 30.

I stopped giving a damn what they think. You also should. And it is freaking hilarious since most of those people think of them as SJW and LGBTQ supporters. They throw at you "gay" label as it supposed to be a curse in 2020. Next level hypocrisy. Like other people wrote, they know you are not so they use it to hurt you. They win the moment they get to you.

I always reply with "Women can join if they pay for themselfes. Somehow rarely they have money haha". Or when a girl is pushy and touchy with you smile and go with "Hey girl, you pay for such things". Case closed.

Occasion-Mental · 2020-10-30T09:13:41+00:00

Yes it is unfortunately...and its a very old way to stab at a male when he wont give them what they want.

Its a defence mechanism, in their minds they think they are so beautiful and desirable that no man can resist. If you do, you get called gay, for many women it gives them an out....if they really were introspective it would damage their minds to finally realize that most men don't want a hoe.

It sux, but that's the rules of their game. It does not have to define you...that stab hurts a lot and there will be worse, ie creepy, incel, looser, pedo.....to name a few.

At 16 it would have been so intense for you, hence why they are living rent free in your mind, it was for you a defining moment. I think you need to look at this for what it was, a childish lash out from a spoiled brat who's not worth your time then and now.

EL10RUB · 2020-10-30T13:04:03+00:00

EVERY girl / woman will resort to shaming tactics in the face of rejection. They are so hard wired to believe that any man would F them if they wanted that their brains cannot process sexual rejection. The same goes with all other aspects of life, when a girl / woman is called out for ANYTHING she will automatically shun responsibility. FACT.

DaPoorWahmens · 2020-10-30T12:15:07+00:00

Women can't handle rejection.

This will bother her until she's 40 years old, and she'll write articles on whatever equivalent of Buzzfeed/Bolde/HuffPo there is then.

CoinSwapTrader · 2020-10-30T12:33:05+00:00

Yet we dont call women who push men away lesbians...

This is how women rape men by making them unable to say NO to a woman's advances out of fear of being called gay...

glass_tumbler · 2020-10-30T12:29:13+00:00

when I was in high school at 16 I invited a girl over for a makeout session and almost stuck it in her, but decided against it after she said you better not get me pregnant, My parents will kill you (in a very teasing red flag fashion)

after that she told everybody I had a small dick.

The funny thing is my cock is pretty damn decent - not giant by any means - but damn decent

I also was the shy guy that got labeled gay at certain points by certain groups and it didn't actually click until I was in my late twenties as to what was going on lol

so it didn't affect me at the time, and it was actually humorous when I figured it all out

it's okay now I have a vasectomy and I won't be giving my seed away at any rate. all those losers that chose to label people in high school are still in the same hometown in the middle of nowhere with no job opportunities, having to feed four kids just scraping by... oh well 🤷‍♂️

usnraptor · 2020-10-30T14:27:57+00:00

In the Navy, some were wondering about me because I wouldn't have sex with the barracks hoes. But I would get last laugh when the barracks hoes got pregnant and 3 or 4 guys started sweating over who was going to be tagged as daddy.

GYOWAndy · 2020-10-30T15:43:56+00:00

My interpretation is that she continually tried to sexually assault you and defamed because she doesn't understand, "NO MEANS NO".

kbj1987 · 2020-10-30T11:28:02+00:00

If you did try then you would be branded a rapist, so being called gay is still a gain IMHO ;-)

RIchardjCranium · 2020-10-30T13:42:19+00:00

Just because you don't want to eat a rotten piece of meat doesn't make you a vegetarian.

--Reddit-Username2-- · 2020-10-30T12:45:00+00:00

Sorry this happened to you. It’s all about insecurities. She was rejected, so she has to insult you. If you tell men why you are MGTOW, they will question their own path, and may also insult you. While I try to be a kind person, sometimes you need to be a prick. “I’ve had better offers from a mailbox” or some other insult that will trigger their insecurities and make them go away may be a better option. Fuck em, work on you. Good luck.

P748d5472 · 2020-10-30T13:08:33+00:00

OP, basically you were sexually assaulted

TigPlaze · 2020-10-30T13:12:03+00:00

That's manipulation. Give it the finger and move on. You never have to fuck anyone. That's your business and no one should ever try to manipulate you into doing that if you don't want to.

The other disturbing thing is their use of gay as a put-down. I'm not gay myself, but the people who are gay aren't doing anything wrong by being that way.

Tryingcameleon · 2020-10-30T16:56:20+00:00

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fmanly · 2020-10-30T18:20:19+00:00

Wow, how progressive.

Goes to show you that displays of progressive values are just displays to most women - they're doing it for attention. It has nothing at all to do with their actual values.

silly_birb · 2020-10-30T11:50:50+00:00

They attack before getting attacked.
Women fear everything, in her mind she was already thinking about how you would shame her ugly ass to have hit on you.

Btw women always shame men sexually "incel, small dick, short men should be sprayed like insects, etc"

DatBoiCrump · 2020-10-31T01:06:07+00:00

I had a co-worker years ago who immediately thought I was gay just from me saying"I'm not interested in dating right now." just for prioritizing school over chasing after chicks, even though a few minutes earlier I was talking about my ex girlfriend lol. I was avoiding saying I'm mgtow for obvious reasons.

malerevolution · 2020-10-31T03:09:43+00:00

It's nothing new. I've dealt with the same thing in the past. I men reject women, something is wrong with the man but if a woman rejects a man, there's still something wrong with the man!

If we give in, we get accused of rape later. We just can't win, but we can stay safe by walking away.

greyman0425 · 2020-10-30T15:26:45+00:00

Better to be called gay or a loser than to be called a rapist.

It's been going on for decades. Girls and women don't like to be turned down for sex any more than men do. Women and girls are just as bad as men at being pushy, especially when drunk. Its a royal PITA, because you are in a double bind:

You can't bang her because if she is that drunk it could be classified as rape. If the old old days 1980's through the mid 1990s it was some times easier just to bang her and chalk it up to drunk sex if you were Chad enough. Not today. Those that took this route back then could get still get #MeToo'd today. She would be the victim and there won't be any cellphone or security camera video to exonerate you.
When you turn her down you have to be firm but careful not to escalate things too far and get out of the situation without provoking a response from the white knight brigade (Male friends and bystanders, bouncers, police etc...). No matter how aggressive and violent she gets you have to keep your cool, parry and dodge but not hit back as you make your escape. From the few times I've done this, it is not fun or funny. My head was on a swivel each time looking for the sucker punch. No one would help a brother out an calm her ass down either.

cfuse · 2020-10-30T19:40:39+00:00

"I didn't think you were homophobic, I thought you were better than that. I guess I was wrong."

gevalher · 2020-10-31T01:07:09+00:00

If anyone that you cared for is treating you like that, then cut him/her/them from your life, you don't need the extra weight.

Shimakaze4 · 2020-10-31T04:05:49+00:00

I refused to kiss a girl many years ago at a party, friends called me gay for months and months after, especially my best friend at the time. Guess who came out as gay? Yep, he did. Projection is a funny thing.

sadalt098 · 2020-10-31T06:44:26+00:00

I’m 16 right now, and Ive had friends legit question my sexuality. I’ve only had one gf, I was lonely. Since then I’ve been looking for plate material but I haven’t been getting around much due to COVID.

kaczan3 · 2020-11-01T13:35:24+00:00

I've heard a ton of homophobia form women all my life, yet now women use gays like a shield and say that as feminist they do justice protecting gays. WOmen are stealing victimhood from the very people they victimized.

FanofLemmy · 2020-10-30T16:42:46+00:00

When she wants sex, you give it to her. Are you stupid?

If she doesn't want it, you dont give it to her. /s

Double standards my man. Imagine if you tried to grab her pussy. You'd have been charged with rape and sexual assault.

strainer123 · 2020-10-30T14:18:12+00:00

You liked her, she liked you, she tried to GRAB YOUR DICK and you pushed her away?! WTF dude.

Title	Being labelled gay because i didn't try fuck a girl ?
Author	Tryingcameleon
Upvotes	129
Comments	74
Date	October 30, 2020 8:21 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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