I’m a man with a pretty low n count of 3-5 depending what u count and i kinda expect that the girl i marry be a virgin to be completely honest. Ive heard other guys suggest that i increase my own n count so i can increase my count to a few higher than the woman my age. But i dont like this idea.

wtknight · 2020-12-04T15:50:48+00:00

Removed. No advice posts.

NarniaFox · 2020-12-04T15:49:13+00:00

You aren't a virgin yourself. Why would a virgin be interested in you if virginity was a deal breaker for both of you? Also how old are you?

badgersonice · 2020-12-04T16:24:18+00:00

Honestly, as a woman who has an n-count of 1 (I’m married to him)... I never considered men with your attitude to be marriageable. I always found the idea of men who had multiple partners, but who still think women who have more than one partner are “gross”... to be just plain gross. I am repulsed by the idea of sex with a man who thinks sex is degrading to women, but also gladly went out and degraded other women himself. Yuck. Never had any interest in being the next sucker he fucks then disrespects.

Granted, I think a full-on virginity fetish in a guy is pretty gross anyways, even if he’s also a virgin. But at least the virgin guy might grow out of that weird virgin/whore crap someday— but the dude who eagerly did sexual things to women he believed was harmful to them? Not likely to grow up and be a decent husband— hell most likely just transfer his weird whore complex onto his wife and probably smother any daughters he has with gross purity ball shit.

If you really just have to marry a virgin, the best practical advice to you would be to keep all this weird purity stuff to yourself forever and lie about your past.

thelajestic · 2020-12-04T15:49:38+00:00

Oh I saw you post this crap on r/relationship_advice the other day.

If women who have had sex gross you out but you've had sex with women, then don't date. Simples. Keep yourself happy with your wee hand, I'm sure you make a lovely couple.

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