What in the fresh F.... 🤡 Relabel it so we don’t “feel” so bad being their therapist, um no thanks.

libralia · 2020-11-21T16:29:43+00:00

As a recovering codependent pickmeshia, no thanks! This is some straight bull.

“Celebrate our caregivers” I be damned if I’m gonna be a grown ass man’s caregiver. I don’t need another child.

Narcissistic drug addict mother, absent alcoholic father, childhood sexual abuse, porn addict’s spouse. Please tell me when tf can I start living my life?

I’m so thankful for FDS.

All that bs stops now. Why was I sacrificing myself? That train has left the station and isn’t stopping anymore!

_wannaseemedisco · 2020-11-21T16:14:02+00:00

Isn't codependency an outdated theory?

Also re: being free therapy.. it is one thing to tell a man that you are especially sensitive to canceled plans from things that happened in your past, but an entire other thing for him to break down sobbing that his parent(s) never loved him. Like one is just sharing and the other is unresolved bullcorn that will 100% be indicative of their mental state and inability to be in a healthy relationship with boundaries.

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-11-21T18:42:17+00:00

“I would be celebrated for helping my wife who has cancer, but questioned if I couldn’t leave an abusive, addict situation”

Yeah... pretty much. The whole point of codependency is that you’re attached despite it being a negative situation. Staying with an addict while they’re active is not beneficial to anyone, including the kids he claims to be looking out for. This is the worst “analogy” ever, it’s a false equivalency

Title	What in the fresh F.... 🤡 Relabel it so we don’t “feel” so bad being their therapist, um no thanks.
Author	libralia
Upvotes	44
Comments	11
Date	November 21, 2020 4:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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