Hi gents,

so my LTR of 3.5 years broke up with me 3 months ago, yet she is still friends and hanging out with my sister and my brothers gf even though they never really would hang out with them while we were together... At first, she told them that she was staying in all week crying eating ice cream watching romantic comedies.. however now, she seems like she is over the breakup, and is just hurting me at this point. Shes constantly in touch with my sister and brothers gf, meeting up with them, and telling them that shes completely fine and over me.

We have been to dinner a few times since the breakup, once on the way back home last week she grabbed my hand, and we walked hand in hand to her place, where i dropped her off and she gave me a kiss on the neck.. she also sends me photos of our dog occasionally. I dont get her..

Then she turns cold again, with one word answers.. This all feels like a game to me at this point where she is acting warm whenever we meet in person, and as soon as she isnt with me, she turns cold again..

I still have the key to her apartment and a few clothes there, she insisted that i keep the key in case she needs help with taking the dog out..

Her behaviour makes no sense - just 6 months ago she urged me to propose and all that, and now this?

Is she just keeping me warm on the side in case she cant find someone better?

What should I do at this point?