So there was this girl I was crazy about. We had a thing going on and it always had its ups and downs. She used to think she was better sometimes. She disrespected me once so I just left. She came back two months later and apologised, took me to our shared good place. I gave her another chance. It was good again, but then she started working excessively and we wouldn’t talk for days on end. It was becoming annoying and then she disrespected me once more. I had enough and ghosted her.

I had other girls that I talked to and one of them was crazy about me. I started giving her more attention and time. Our relationship became great and I am finally thinking of giving her the ltr status. Meanwhile, I never talked to my ex during this time. We all go to a small university so I often run into my ex and I am always with the new girl.

So the ex started sending me random snaps and stuff which I ignored. She was thinking I might not be talking because that kind of happened sometimes and we’ll both talk eventually. That didn’t happen. I replied to one snap and she had a meltdown and told me how she was being affected and how she feels guilty and stuff. She wants closure and wants it on text. She won’t be comfortable in person. She said she’s impatient and can’t wait for an in person thing anyway. I told her that it’s okay if you want to talk, but it has to be in person or it will be nothing.

What should I do? Should I even go? I see her around on campus and it is awkward. What mistakes did I make?