What's the difference between a shittest and disrespect?

Protocol_Apollo · 2020-02-27T23:24:37+00:00

You could go the route fereally and financial suggest which is basically treat everything like a shit test/“nothing can hurt me unless I give it permission”.

Or you could go for something like this:

A shit test is something you get that doesn’t LOWER her attractiveness.

Eg

Are you a player

I bet you say that to all girls

Aww are you upset

None of those cause you to be less attracted to her.

But then something like this:

A plate/fwb flirting with other guys in front of you isn’t a shit test, its unattractive and so it’s disrespect imo.

Calibrate accordingly, go more on the side of everything is a shit test rather than disrespect. Nobody likes the guy who always feels like he’s getting disrespected and exclaiming “STOP DISRESPECTING ME!”

But don’t go autist and avoid calling disrespect as it is.

In this case, I would probably treat it more as a shit test unless she keeps banging on about it.

Next time just don’t tell girls bad things about you. Never show weakness.

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-02-28T05:29:50+00:00

A shit test IS disrespect.

Normalizing of female rudeness by hamsterisation and calling it shit test doesn’t make it different.

However a slight difference may be that shit tests are minor challenges to prove to her that she’s correct in wanting you while disrespect comes from a place where she is just plain disinterested and has bad manners

mikkeldaman · 2020-02-28T06:42:09+00:00

Shittests are in essence a way to push the boundaries to see how much you'll accept. Kind of like a kid testing how much stupid shit they can do until they get grounded. I think of myself as fairly tolerant and a light push of boundaries will result in a snarky remark, ignoring it, flirting with other girls or outright calling it out and reprimanding it. In the end I kind of understand the value of shittests, they're an integral part of the seduction process and they can be quite charming.

However, if a girl is too forceful in pushing these boundaries (for e.g. outright insulting me or my family, especially my mom, whom - despite whatever the redpill says about women - in my eyes is a saint, disrespecting their own family, trying to get me to agree with unorthodox opinions, etc.), I will not blink an eye before I dump them right where they stand.

boodie_1961 · 2020-02-27T23:01:18+00:00

Maybe that super-hot girl has a personality disorder. Maybe she's playing with your emotions, because she can and this makes her feel in power. See the nasty character through her beauty and don't be fooled by it: next time she disrespects you, just ghost her. Be polite by all means but move on.

FereallyRed · 2020-02-27T22:45:49+00:00

Disrespect is when insecure boys allow their ego to outpace their frame.

PimpinLikeIceberg · 2020-02-28T02:27:03+00:00

Disrespect is punishable. Shittests aren't. Ask yourself this question next time : " Does she deserve a punishment for the shit she just said/did ? "

Weird thinking huh ? Hahah Yes. I move like this personally because the line is very thin between them. And i punish accordingly when needed...Never on the spot though. Chill ! Leave it for another day but dont forget !

Cryptomineand69 · 2020-02-28T03:41:33+00:00

There is often some overlap but in general a shit test is when she likes you and wants to like you more by challenging you to make her poosy wet (Basically a form of foreplay).

Disrespect is when she is repulsed by you and gets enjoyment out of disrespecting you.

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-02-27T22:48:37+00:00

Treat everything like a shit test

WIA20XX · 2020-02-27T22:44:48+00:00

Your frame

kdsflyfree · 2020-02-29T07:09:11+00:00

Hmm, ask yourself why she is paying attention to you. Mysterious, isn't it?

Main thing is not to get rattled, especially when dropping a nuke in response to an especially heinous violation.

A&A will usually suffice, or a flip or neg. Hot girls especially pull that shit.

And DGAF about your "bad characteristics"--you've entered her frame then.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-02-28T12:04:18+00:00

How offensive is she being, and how much self respect do you have? That's the difference between a shit test and disrespect.

Fromstatepharm · 2020-02-27T23:59:40+00:00

The difference is up to you

Title	What's the difference between a shittest and disrespect?
Author	Luki_Luki_Luki
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Date	February 27, 2020 10:32 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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